A+ Sex Diary: FaceTime Fucking and Feeling the Distance

Welcome to A+ Sex Diaries, an A+ feature in which we publish seven days in our sex lives. This week: a thirty-ish genderqueer in the middle of a heavy dose of S.A.D. in a long-distance relationship.

Day One
My day-to-day is often focused on sex. My day job involves talking about sex (and a whole plethora of other stuff) to a variety of people. Plus, I masturbate a lot — like a lot a lot. No sex is boring, including solo sex. I love having sex by myself. I love cozying up with some porn I rented, or perusing a porn site until I find someone who sparks my interest. I love the quick rub of the vibrator before getting out of bed, and even the mindless rumble of my wand on my vulva as I scroll through erotica, taking moments to update my shopping list or check facebook while my clit is rubbed raw.

It's the middle of winter and my partner is long-distance. This means I’m sad most of the time, and I think Yuri On Ice may have made me monogamous for the first time in my life (and tb...

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