So You Want To Dress Like You’re in “The Birdcage”
We’re taking a trip to South Beach and getting into the iconic summer styles of The Birdcage! The neon, the billowy linens, the rings and gaudy necklaces!
The Comment Awards Want to Know Your Toxic Trait
“This sent me into a full spiral daydream of my kick-ass custom furniture, the queer carpenter who built it, and our enduring love.”
Into the A+ Advice Box #59: You Love Her But There’s No Passion
What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!
The Fall of Roe Is For All Of Us
There’s a lot of confusion going around about what this all means and as someone who worked in repro and/or civil liberties work for over fifteen years, I’m here to demystify the moment we’re in right now.
Puberty, Gym Class & Aeropostale — Fat Femmes On Their Childhood Style
“It sounds like we were all told by others that we were too big as children — rather than actually feeling that way ourselves?”
“Good Trouble” Episode 409 Recap: That Was Just A Dream
Alice finds the courage to face her fears, take the stage, and begin to heal.
Slow Takes: “F9: The Fast Saga” and the Danger of Queer Assimilation
I will always believe that homoerotic criminals are far queerer than explicitly gay cops.
A+ Roundtable: Do We Have Kids? Do We Want to Have Kids?
“I don’t know, y’all, being a parent is so scary, and sweet and weird and hilarious and exhausting and ugly and lonely and suffocating and perfect.”
Rainbow Reading: A Fictional Happy-Ever-After Doesn’t Always Satisfy When It’s a Real Life Happy-Ever-After That I Want
Check out the latest updates in LGBTQ+ literature, including an upcoming virtual reading to raise funds for queer and trans youth in Florida and Texas!
Foolish Child #119: Lesbian Visibility
“You know that very married woman was not flirting with you, right?”
“Grace and Frankie” Live Happily Ever After, Blessed by Dolly Parton
Grace and Frankie began with an ending, and ended with a beginning. And it was perfect.
“Crush” Screenwriters Kirsten King and Casey Rackham On Astrology, Queer Utopia, and Their Own Crushes
“All of the drama in my queer friends’ lives revolves around who they may or may not fuck. And then we save the talk about our dads for our therapists.”
Pop Culture Fix: Sandra Oh Really Wants You to Know Eve Polastri Is Not Straight
Also! Suranne Jones and Sophie Rundle play Mrs and Mrs, Brandi Carlile honors Naomi Judd, Kristen Kish co-hosts Iron Chef, and more!
No Filter: It’s Nearly Impossible To Pick Just One Post of Niecy Nash and Jessica Betts on Vacation!!
Also, hugely here for Keke Palmer updating and re-releasing her 2007 hit “Bottoms Up” (now Bottoms Up 2). A triple threat! Never forget it!
All That Was Gilded and Gay From the 2022 Met Gala
Attractive queer humans put on sparkly clothes and so, in the tradition of our people, I’m here to ask them to step on my neck.
“Gentleman Jack” Unwraps The Vast, Rich Tapestry of Anne’s Fruity Past
Anne and Ann go honeymooning in Paris and meet up with Ms. Lister’s most dapper ex.
10 Ways to Celebrate Masturbation May
Give yourself a hand — it’s International Masturbation Month!
You Need Help: How Can I Learn To Enjoy Gay Clubs?
Try to let go of the need for perfection on the space and on yourself. Instead let that bliss find you whenever it’s meant to find you.
“We Do What We Do In the Dark” Is More Than a Lesbian Age Gap Romance
When we’re young, we relate to older people who are themselves young. We read maturity where it is not deserved.
Netflix’s “The Principles of Pleasure” Invites Us Out of Shame and Into the Light
Pleasure can be sexual, but it also doesn’t have to be. I think I could have a healthier relationship with sex and my body by defining what pleasure means for me, without the influence of sex and attraction.