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Christmas Movie Lists

Actually, These Are Christmas Movies, Too!

Think of these movies more as a cozy fireplace with stockings hung on them, rather than a Christmas tree lit up in the center of the room.

Analyssa December 23, 2022 28 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Humming Along

“I’m just…I can’t stop watching this and blushing.”

Darcy December 23, 2022 7 Comments
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AF+ Recipes

A Very Special Senior Team Holigay Recipe Roundup

We’ve got cookies, gravy, cake, pasta, sausage balls and two separate and very different alcoholic beverages.

The Editors December 23, 2022 8 Comments
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TV Lists

The Best TV Shows of 2022 With LGBTQ Women and Non-Binary Characters

It’s time for our list of the best TV shows of 2022 with lesbian, queer and bisexual women and/or trans characters! Can you guess what’s number one?

Riese and The TV Team
December 23, 2022 43 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Might Give a Speech in a Bathrobe

Still accepting suggestions for how to better utilize this excerpt space! You’re all very clever.

brooke December 23, 2022 14 Comments
A collage of Analyssa in four different outfits, that are in a range of tomboy femme to dress up dresses and make up. Analyssa is a light skin Latina with dark hair.
Queer Fashion Shopping

This Clothing Rental Service Changed My Life, Now I Don’t Have to Stress My Aesthetic

If I want to lean into a more femme style this month, or if I want to try a bunch of different new jumpsuits, or if I want to test the new trendy style of jeans in a bunch of different washes: these are now all options for me! 

Analyssa December 22, 2022 8 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Judith Butler’s “Gender Trouble” Is Relevant in New Ways During the Rise of Ron DeSantis

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Carmen Phillips December 22, 2022 6 Comments
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AF+

Today at 11am PST / 7pm GMT: Get Lost & Delirious with Sally!

Swords! Lesbians! Falconry! It’s time to watch-along with Sally during a very special event set at a time that should actually be convenient for our friends in Europe.

Nico and Sally
December 22, 2022
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Book Lists

92 of the Best Queer Books of 2022

Almost every category in this 2022 best of list was very competitive.

Casey December 22, 2022 38 Comments
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Puzzles

Jigsaw Puzzle! Cozy Winter Wish List

New puzzle alert!!

Yao Xiao and Laneia
December 22, 2022 31 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes for Capricorn Season 2022: What Are You Striving For?

In this season of Capricorn, practice balancing your ambitions with honoring your needs, both physical and otherwise.

meg December 21, 2022 3 Comments
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AF+

Interview With My Girlfriend: Sadie

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Nico December 21, 2022 29 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Cate Blanchett’s TÁR Cinematic Universe Is Expanding for Some Reason

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Heather Hogan December 21, 2022 12 Comments
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Politics + Activism

Trans Texans Are Being Surveilled, This Is Everyone’s Issue

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KB Brookins December 21, 2022 8 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: The Theytriarch Janelle Monáe Is Giving Sherlock Holmes!

Also: St. Vincent vibing with Metallica? Why not!

Christina Tucker December 21, 2022 1 Comment
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Has Cut to the Feeling

The editor in charge of our puzzle content has decided that excerpts for crossword puzzles are largely useless, so she’s taking suggestions for alternative, disparate information she could share in this space instead.

Rachel December 21, 2022 12 Comments
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Community

How to Care For Your Friend Having Gender Affirming Surgery

Providing meaningful care means not only caring for your friend (completing tasks, making meals) but it is also caring about your friend.

Araguaney R. Da Silva December 21, 2022 23 Comments
Megan Thee Stallion whose legal name is Megan Pete arrives at court to testify in the trial of Rapper Tory Lanez for allegedly shooting her on Tuesday, Dec. 13, 2022 in Los Angeles, CA
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Love to Megan Thee Stallion, Now and Forever

This is your daily reminder that Megan thee Stallion isn’t the one on trial, her assailant is.

Carmen Phillips December 20, 2022 5 Comments
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Community Jewish Holidays

Hanukkah Lights From the Disabled Community

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Riley Aster December 20, 2022 9 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

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