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Music

BPM: Getting Wet and Bubbly With BANKS

Sex just happened in my ears and I was really not mad about it because holy Tegan and Sara this was so good.

Jeanie January 16, 2014 14 Comments
LGBT History

15 Ladies Who Were Writing Sexy Lesbian Love Letters Before You Got Born

Before there was sexting, there was inserting obvious sexual metaphors into benign-looking letters and adding romantic overtones to keep it classy.

Ryan Yates January 15, 2014 44 Comments
Queer Fashion

Queer Outfit of the Week: It’s Cold Inside the Party!

Who doesn’t have a friend who insists on throwing parties at their apartment despite the fact that they always keep the heat at 50 degrees and leave the back door open so her cat can get out? With that in mind, I present to you just the warmest coolest outfit for when it’s still cold inside the party.

Lizz January 15, 2014 5 Comments
Book Features

Hot New Lit Journal qu.ee/r Is Here With “A Call To Adventure”!

This issue proves that that’s possible — there’s gobs of work out there made by queer artists that isn’t confined to coming out stories, identity struggles, or crushes on straight girls, and it’s really good.

Rachel January 15, 2014 8 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Vulvas Taste Like Vulvas

If you’re nervous you won’t like vulva taste, this post is for you.

A.E. Osworth January 15, 2014 102 Comments
Geekery

Strong Female Protagonist Is The Perfect Superhero Comic Even If You Don’t Like Superheroes

“Strong Female Protagonist” is a wonderful superhero comic that places more importance on the humanity of it’s characters than their super-humanity. It tells the story of Alison Green (formerly Mega-Girl) as she tries to negotiate post-superhero life.

Mey January 15, 2014 7 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: CeCe McDonald, Beyoncé, and Laura Jane Grace Raise Their Middle Fingers to the Man and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Bow down, bitches.

Carmen January 15, 2014 10 Comments
Music

Let’s Watch A Preview of Janelle Monáe Being Amazing On “Sesame Street”

So far, 2014 is shaping up to be a pretty excellent year for lady musicians and muppets alike.

Stef January 15, 2014 13 Comments
Politics + Activism

BREAKING: U.S. District Court Rules Oklahoma Same-Sex Marriage Ban Unconstitutional

This is too important for my intended Oklahomo pun, but I want y’all to know that I thought of it.

A.E. Osworth January 14, 2014 13 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Mend A Thing: Drawstrings, Jeans and Torn Linings

This week we’re replacing drawstrings, patching jeans and repairing torn linings! Exciting stuff!

Hansen January 14, 2014 4 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Couples Therapy 402: Grand Central Meltdown Station

This week on a show that makes my own therapist worried about me, Ghost is little more than a thin membrane of double standards, Farrah and orders her dessert before her drinks, and Whitney and Sara float blankly in the corner until they talk about hitting each other because they are “passionate”.

Kate January 14, 2014 10 Comments
Music

Jenny, Allison, Mal and More: The Gayest Compilation Album Ever Made Vol 2 Is Here

Everyone Is Gay debuts a compilation album of everyone you love: Mal Blum, Ingrid Michaelson, Allison Weiss, Jenny Owen Youngs, and Gregory and the Hawk, for starters. Did we mention it’s for a great cause?

Kate January 14, 2014 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

Queer View Mirror: Janet Yellen, First Woman To Ever Lead Fed

Janet Yellen is about to become the most powerful woman in the world. Learn more about her new job and why her role is important to women in economics.

Kaitlyn January 14, 2014 10 Comments
Music

Javiera Mena’s “Espada” is the Gayest Video of All Time

Espada means sword. Sword means dildo. This video is about wanting to be dildoed. Dildoed is a verb now.

Brittani January 14, 2014 36 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Lost Girl Episode 401 Recap: Everything’s Coming Up Kenzi

Bo is indeed lost for this entire episode, but Kenzi, Jenny Schecter and George Takei pick up the slack.

Kristen January 14, 2014 12 Comments
Gender

Janet Mock Redefines Realness: The Autostraddle Interview

“I think the biggest thing for me is the plug-in to this amazing trans* and queer community that’s out there that’s been doing this work that’s, I think, at a point where it’s really ready to take the lead from people who live in many multiplicities.”

Carmen January 14, 2014 16 Comments
Politics + Activism

What’s Happening For CA’s Trans Students? Unpacking the Clusterf*ck Of AB 1266

Search the hashtag #AB1266 on Twitter, and you’ll see what I mean by clusterfuck. It’s a mixture of conservatives, LGBT groups, names of California counties, statistics, and conflicting reports of what’s happened, and what’s next.

Maryam January 13, 2014 7 Comments
First Person

I’m Going To Homeschool These Damn Babies

I finally feel safe enough to imagine the big queer family I never had. A home where gender is an option, not an obligation, where parents can apologize to each other as well as to their kids and where long, ongoing conversations about race, power and privilege exist.

KimKatrinCrosby January 13, 2014 28 Comments
Music

Angel Haze Tells Us The Truth As If She Has To On “Dirty Gold”

This album matters for reasons beyond the music itself. Haze remains deliberate about sharing an honest, hopeful message.

Adrian January 13, 2014 2 Comments
LGBT History

More Than Words: Gay Pt. 1 — We’re Going Gay

Happiness, Latin vaginas, northern winds, and flaming quarrels. And we’re just getting started.

Cara January 13, 2014 14 Comments
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