Results for: Feel good
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I’m Masculine, I Strap, I Love Being Called “Sir”… Am I Trans or a Masc Lesbian?
In this week’s AF+ Advice box: trying to figure out if you’re trans or a masculine lesbian, finding good lesbian love poems for a wedding, complicated feelings about an ex and group chat drama.
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I’m a Stone Butch Top Who Can’t Bring Myself To Penetrate Anyone Else
“I’m struggling to get over the empathetic feelings of ‘Aaa! Vaginal penetration is painful and bad.'”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #92: Healthy Relationships and Boundaries
How to stand up to straight people wedding expectations, deal with disappointment around a potential sperm donor, decide whether or not to cut off given family, know whether you should ask your ex-boss out, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #93: How Can You Tell If She Has A Crush On You?
How do you build chosen family? Should you consider pursuing romantic connection when your friends have become more distant? And do we have ideas for your anniversary celebration? (We do!)
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Into the A+ Advice Box #88: THE HOTBOX
In which we answer the age-old queer question. How long do you wait after a breakup before hooking up with other people?
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Into the A+ Advice Box #90: Queer Sex and Desire with Sex Educator Luna Matatas
“So many people struggle with getting out of their head and into their body during sex.”
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A+ Members Get 25% Off Autostraddle Merch — Including All New Designs!
We’ve got A League Of Their Own Peaches Tee, Peaches Socks, an All Stars Cap, new tees and restocks of your fav items ALL on sale!
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Anonymous Sex Diary: Don’t Be Scared to Touch Me
A nonbinary person finally receives an endometriosis diagnosis that explains their pain. As ey begin exploring treatment options that mitigate the pain, ey and their partner decide to try having sex again.
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I Think My Hot Girlfriend Is Gonna Leave Me For Someone Hotter
Advice for coping when your Instagram-beloved girlfriend seems too hot for you, rekindling romance after long Covid, and how to flirt — gayly.
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Becoming Myself Post-Divorce Through Drag
“Po’Chop asks us to list adjectives we associate with masculinity. I think of men I want to emulate — Stanley Tucci, Mandy Patinkin, my dad. We pace and pose with these adjectives in mind, cheer each other on through acting out these poses. It’s the most I have thought about existing in my body in a long time, and the awkwardness starts to give way to appreciation, and even a bit of confidence.”
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Anonymous Sex Diary: The Leather Play Party
“A while ago, my gender friend and I realized we had both searched “power bottom” on Autostraddle, within the same week.” This week’s writer takes us to a leather play party for women and trans people and more!
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Did My Partner Trick Me Into a Lifetime of Sexless Monogamy?
In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a partner and getting into being handy!
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Happy Holigays: Celebrate with A+ and 25+ Exclusive Discounts at Places You Love
We’re so excited to have put together over 25 opportunities exclusive for A+ members to save at some of our favorite places while supporting makers & business owners you can feel good about — get in here now to grab clothing, leather, jewelry, art, custom services and a LOT of sex toys. Haven’t joined A+ yet? A+ memberships start at just $4/month!
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Anonymous Sex Diary: Tenderness Lingers
“I always worry these older guys are gonna fucking die when I get them to hit poppers with me, especially if they popped a Viagra first.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #65: So You Think You Might Be Gender Fluid
Advice on studying with ADHD, envying they/them pronouns, finding the best outfits to match glamorous heels, masturbation, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #77: Should You Co-Parent With Your Queer Friends?
Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 103: April 2023
“everyone act medium”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #71: So You Keep Falling For Your Friends
Feeling bad because of TikTok, boundary setting during sex, what your porn preferences mean, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #73: Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Like Your Soft Butch Haircut
Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #75: Is It Over?
Career anxiety, dating after sexaul assault, consent and polyamory and more!