The following content contains mentions of menstruation; dysphoria; vaginal, oral, anal, penetrative, and group sex; and kink.

Welcome back to our Anonymous Sex Diaries series where queer and trans people from around the world let us into a seven day snippet of their sex, love and dating lives.
Day 1
Tomorrow I'm going to a leather play party for women and trans people. A friend I had met on Grindr is a regular there, and took me for the first time a few months ago. I hadn't realized how much of an actual party it would be, with people catching up or hanging out with their partners. I had always pictured cruising as the silent, cis gay male kind, and was a bit overwhelmed when I had to put my socializing hat on. I also considered mysel...