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Is Refusing To Share My Location a Red Flag?
A request from a younger girlfriend has a reader wondering if her aversion to location sharing is a generational conflict. Also: how to keep a relationship sexy without sex and how to celebrate newfound queer desire and forgive our younger selves.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #12: Bisexual Marriage Blues, Sexting as a Bottom, and More!
Why does gay male sex turn you on if you’re a lesbian and is it okay? Plus, conflicting ideas about isolating & dating during quarantine, cheering up your partner over long distance, parents and mental health and Covid-19, SO MANY mixed signals from your ex wife who’s in another relationship and…should you fuck your boss?!?!?! Things are a mess out there, but at least we have each other and 26 questions from readers like you!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #11: Meeting the Parents, Department Drama, Friend Breakups and More!
Recovering after being ghosted, dealing with queer tokenism, knowing if you’re a top or a bottom, straight people are STILL not ok, and did that organizer ask you for an organizing coffee or a COFFEE coffee??
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Into the A+ Advice Box #77: Should You Co-Parent With Your Queer Friends?
Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #10: Is She Straight or Into You? Can You Dress Gay? and More!
Be the cool queer cousin you wished for as a kid, the polite way to turn someone down, sex is still great without an orgasm, creating your own queer community when you feel alone in the world, and 20 other questions from everyday readers like you!
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Help! My Friends Won’t Shut Up
Plus advice about leaving a controlling partner and getting second dates.
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Into the A+ Advice Box: Quarantine Special Edition
Help! Your girlfriend is quarantined three hours away, your roommate’s partner moved into the apartment during the shut down without your consent, dying your hair before that next work Zoom call, handling an overwhelming group chat, and what to do when you are so alone!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #76: JEALOUSY AND ENVY
“That’s what envy’s like. Not just wanting what other people have, but becoming so consumed by it that you end up casting yourself as a supporting character in their story, instead of inhabiting the full and wondrous world of your own story, where you’re the main character.”
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Advice Columns Were My Guilty Pleasure Until They Became My Connection to Community
That’s what makes these posts so special, really, is that they’re not about a singular person bestowing their wisdom onto faceless readers but rather a coming together of a community to help each other sort through their shit in confidence.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #82: Travel and Camping (While Gay)
Traveling while queer / trans and pregnant, PDA at Disney, tick checks…and more!
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Did My Partner Trick Me Into a Lifetime of Sexless Monogamy?
In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a partner and getting into being handy!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #73: Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Like Your Soft Butch Haircut
Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!
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I Think My Girlfriend Is Drugging My Dog
In this week’s advice box, a relationship plagued by dog problems and possible dishonesty, how to support a partner convinced they’re worthless without a job, and safe sex for poly people.
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Into the AF+ Advice Box #95: ANXIETIES
Whether it’s anxiety about driving, being perceived as younger at work, bodies and sex, pregnancy, or socializing — we’ve got you with some queer advice!
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I’m Scared About My Wife Using Her Ex-Boyfriend as Our Sperm Donor
Sperm is expensive and you don’t know many “good” men — but you do know one…your wife’s ex. Plus advice on discussing money and mis-matched incomes with friends.
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My Girlfriend Loves Period Sex and I Hate It
Advice for a person who really wants to get over being grossed out by periods, plus advice about friendship from three different askers.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #69: What If You Have a Stalker?
Supporting a partner with an HIV diagnosis, dating anxiety, dressing while pregnant, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #94: I Don’t Think My Queer Relative Should Get Married
Advice on supporting a partner rejected by their family, non-competitive boardgames, period depression…and more!
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Help! I’ve Gotten ‘The Ick’ for My Girlfriend
Advice for suddenly feeling unattracted to your girlfriend, having your first ever crush on a cis dude, and finding a sex therapist.
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Into the A+ Box #85: POLYAMORY
“The right people will understand this. Trust that you will find them.”