• About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
  • Shop
  • Sign In
  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Baby Steps
    • Our Sex/Life
    • The Parlour
    • Go Long
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • S L I C K Erotica
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles

Life

  • LGBT History
  • Health
  • Travel
  • Money + Work
  • Geekery
  • Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft
  • Holigays
  • Parenting & Family
  • Pregnancy

Etc.

  • Special Issues
  • Webcomics
  • Lists/Top Tens
  • Greatest Hits
  • Ranked by Lesbianism
  • Epic Lists
  • Shopping
  • Podcasts

  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Sign In
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Baby Steps
    • Our Sex/Life
    • The Parlour
    • Go Long
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • S L I C K Erotica
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles
  • Shop
  • About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Going On Staycation

Meet you in the pillow fort!

carrie March 6, 2015 3 Comments
Community

Win or Get An A+ Membership and Be There For Our A+ AMA Advice-a-Thon On March 9th

We’re having an Advice-a-Thon/AMA on A+ on Monday to celebrate our sixth birthday with tons of Autostraddle editors and special guests like La Loba Loca, Mallory Ortberg, Dannielle Owens-Reid and more! We’re also giving away some free A+ memberships to ‘Straddlers-in-need and THIS is the post wherein you can get yourself in the running!

Riese March 6, 2015 133 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Hello Internet, I’m Back! I Missed You So Much!

Hello I had no Internet for a week and I forgot I existed. Come tell me all about the world around you so I can once again feel the thrill of posting a comment in response to you on this very website! GET IN HERE SO WE CAN LOVE EACH OTHER, DAMN IT.

Carmen March 6, 2015 221 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #169: More Stories We Tell Ourselves In Order to Live

Topics include same-sex adoption, the 50 Shades movie, Keurig cups, the Ferguson Police Department, Susan Berman, the missing Malaysia Airlines flight and moar!

Riese March 6, 2015 12 Comments
Recipes

Get Baked: This Chocolate Cake

Sometimes you want a chocolate cake to hit you in the face like a moist, fragrant, delicious brick. With sprinkles.

Ryan Yates March 6, 2015 13 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #67: Sick Day Reading

Lambda finalists, queer representation in comics, Emily Books getting more awesome and more.

Ryan Yates March 5, 2015 11 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: I Am Absolutely Not Going Back Outside

It’s going to snow forever and I am completely fucking sick of it.

Stef March 5, 2015 11 Comments
Politics + Activism

UK Home Office Says Aderonke Apata Can’t Be Gay Because She Has Children, Duh

“By ignoring the complexities of coming out both those who identify as bisexuals and lesbians with mixed dating histories like Ms. Apata are seen as demonstrating the idea that people can choose their identities with relative ease, and therefore the threat they face is technically self-inflicted.”

Rushaa March 5, 2015 23 Comments
Coming Out

You Need Help: Coming Out In Your Mid/Late 20s

The fact that you’re working through all this now doesn’t say anything negative about you or the way you moved through life for the past 24 years. What you did then was valid, and what you’re doing now is valid.

Laura Mandanas March 5, 2015 147 Comments
The Scene

Family Equality Council Honors Glee, Mayor Annise Parker and More at Awards Dinner

The Family Equality Council threw a fabulous shindig that honored the different ways in which people are fighting for LGBTQ equality. Plus, they had an excellent dessert selection.

Cleo March 5, 2015 3 Comments
TV Show Recaps

The Fosters Episode 218 Recap: The Mating Rituals Of Meerkats

Lena and Stef chat about some sexy handcuff situations, while Jude and Connor kiss right on the mouth.

Heather Hogan March 4, 2015 21 Comments
Movie Lists

9 Pretty Delightful Lesbian & Queer Comedies You Can Watch Online

AREN’T WE HILARIOUS??!!

Riese March 4, 2015 49 Comments
Community

Let’s Meet Up and Stay In: Autostraddle’s International Staycation Spectacular is March 14!

We want you – yes, YOU! – to take a staycation, dude. With your fellow ‘straddlers, of course.

Carmen March 4, 2015 54 Comments
Sex

5 Ways To Support Ethical Porn (Even If You Can’t Afford It)

Ethical porn can exist, but it needs your help.

Chelsea Poe March 4, 2015 23 Comments
AF+

Interview With My Ex-Girlfriend: Allison Weiss

The moment I stepped out of the moving truck and saw you, I was like: “something’s not right.”

Dannielle March 4, 2015 17 Comments
Politics + Activism

Alabama Continues Its On-Again, Off-Again Relationship With Same-Sex Marriage

Alabama’s Supreme Court has ordered probate judges to stop issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples immediately.

Heather Hogan March 4, 2015 6 Comments
Book Lists LGBT History

Rebel Girls: Consider This Your Women’s Herstory Month Syllabus

I want us to embark on some serious herstorical journeys through time, but I simply cannot condense herstory into one post, so I’m gonna condense everyone else’s pieces, books, movies, and projects about women’s history into one instead!

Carmen March 4, 2015 13 Comments
Politics + Activism

Arrest Made in Brutal Murder of Black Trans Woman Islan Nettles

A year and a half after Islan Nettles’ murder, James Dixon has been charged with manslaughter and felony assault in connection with her death.

Mey March 4, 2015 3 Comments
TV Feature

27 Things I Didn’t Say Out Loud While Watching Teevee

Sure, some things need to be said when they need to be said, but apparently “that’s the guy from Lost!” is not one of those things?

Riese March 3, 2015 61 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Pretty Little Liars Episode 521 Recap: Vengeance Is Mine

Everyone visits Ali in jail to apologize for getting her arrested for a murder she didn’t commit. And Emily effin’ dances.

Heather Hogan March 3, 2015 28 Comments
← Previous Page 1 … 907 908 909 910 911 912 913 … 1,438 Next Page →

From the Archives

  • An Obsessive Analysis of the Timeline of The L Word Generation Q Season Two
  • Boob(s On Your) Tube: “How To Get Away With Murder” Is Always Best When It’s Gay
  • I’ll Watch Anything With a Toxic Mentor/Mentee Dynamic

Latest Comments

  • Val You Need Help: As a Transmasc, Am I Welcome in Lesbian Spaces? "Hey! From a cis-lesbian, I say get in here. It totally helps me if someone who presents very cis/het chooses…"

  • Becca Lesbian Neo-Noir ‘Honey Don’t!’ Plays With and Challenges Genre Conventions "I’m the only one of my friend group that liked Honey Don’t/thought it was doing something interesting and just couldn’t…"

  • M On Never Seeing Someone Again "there is something heartbreakingly beautiful about allowing a relationship (of any kind, but especially the tangential to our ex-romantic kind)…"

  • Kerryn I’m 34 and Want Kids. Is It Ethical To Eliminate Older Women From My Dating Pool? "Speaking as a parent, it’s super important that a relationship is solid before having children. Parenting is really hard sometimes…"

Latest Posts

  • Every Out Queer Player in the 2025 Women’s Rugby World Cup
  • I’m 34 and Want Kids. Is It Ethical To Eliminate Older Women From My Dating Pool?
  • Queer Horoscopes for Virgo Season 2025
  • Lesbian Neo-Noir ‘Honey Don’t!’ Plays With and Challenges Genre Conventions
  • Remember When ‘Brokeback Mountain’ Lost to ‘Crash’ at the Oscars?

Our Network

  • Store
  • For Them

About Us

  • What is AS?
  • Meet The Team
  • Press
  • Advertise
  • Contact Us
  • Write for Us
  • Cookie Policy
  • Privacy Policy

Follow Us

  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Instagram
  • RSS

Copyright 2009 - 2025 The Excitant Group, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Comment Policy

Read ad-free: join AF MEDIA