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Sex

You Need Help: Issues With Strap-On Size

What do you do when your girlfriend has a small vaginal opening and wants to have penetrative sex?

Ari June 2, 2016 16 Comments
Food Lists

Top 10 Foods We’re Not Ashamed to Eat In Public as Fat People

“I will lick that shit out of any allegedly “empty” sauce container of aioli regardless of its size in comparison to my tongue and how many people watch in horror or confusion when I refuse to let its gelatinous goodness remain clinging to the sides of its serving dish where it would otherwise remain unused, unwanted and unappreciated.”

Mey June 2, 2016 26 Comments
Culture

How We Make Faith Tangible As Queers With Christian Roots: A Roundtable

When faith, spirituality, and cultural practice feel complicated and contradictory, it can help to have a physical object to hold onto and reflect upon. These items can root us to our histories of faith — or they may simply be a symbol of old memories.

Adrian June 2, 2016 24 Comments
Food and Drink

Liquor On The Mountain: Whiskey Women

This year at A-Camp, we’re tasting whiskeys that are or have been historically piloted by women. No boys’ club spirits this year!

A.E. Osworth June 2, 2016 20 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for June 2016

This month is all about love as a learning process. We begin the month with Sun and Venus (our sense of self, and how we attract love) in Gemini–sign of curiosity, humor, and investigation.

Corina Dross June 1, 2016 25 Comments
Health Travel

The Starting Place: How an Unlikely Hiker Can Get Outdoorsy

A personal take on showing up, hiking through it, and knots and how to tie them.

taylor June 1, 2016 12 Comments
Life

Take Yourself on a Diarist’s Hike

Can you capture some of the magic of A-Camp’s Diarist Hike where you live? Based on my experiences, I’d say yes.

A.E. Osworth June 1, 2016 5 Comments
Geekery LGBT Book Reviews

Notes From A Queer Engineer Recommends “Lab Girl”

Lab Girl by Hope Jahren is one of the most exquisite pieces of science writing I’ve ever read. As a researcher and professor of geobiology for the past 20 years, Jahren has earned accolades for her work. Here, she shares her passion.

Laura Mandanas June 1, 2016 7 Comments
Music

10 Steps to Starting Your Own All-Grrl A Cappella Group

Just because you aren’t on the Mountain right now doesn’t mean you can’t be a part of your very own music and magic making group of friends. I promise you won’t regret it.

Ari June 1, 2016 6 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Some Important Dogs

Celesbian dogs we’ve known.

Stef June 1, 2016 10 Comments
Health

For You: A Menstruation Cry Calendar

Ah, that beautiful transition in your monthly cycle where increasingly the things you cry at shift from understandable to irrational.

Erin May 31, 2016 42 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Reuse, Recycle, Repoussé: Beer Can Earrings

This week at A-Camp, we’ll be using all these cans to make simple repoussé earrings. If you’ve got a can waiting to be recycled, bust out your scissors and join us. And if not, I bet there’s something cold in your fridge just begging for you to drink it.

Laura May 31, 2016 23 Comments
Straddleverse

Straddler Nation: Building Safe(r) Spaces for Queers IRL

How do real-life communities based off of online ones maintain safe and inclusive spaces? Let’s talk about it!

Carmen May 31, 2016 17 Comments
Book Features

5 Queer Poetry Slams and Open Mics From Coast to Coast

Poetry slams and open mics for queer poets of all stripes to try out.

Carolyn Wysinger May 31, 2016 8 Comments
Geekery

A-Camp All Stars Recommend Their Favorite Comics!

Knowing that these A-Camp All-Stars live parts of their lives off the mountain and reading comics, I decided to ask some of them what their very favorite comics are.

Mey May 31, 2016 9 Comments
First Person

The Unresolved Body in a State of Conflict

Often, when I’m having sex, a very specific thought runs through my head on a loop: “don’t touch me.” What gives? If I get so much out of being close to other people, shouldn’t sex be the ultimate way to prove it?

Carrie May 30, 2016 28 Comments
Comedy

Pinterest Should Calm Down: Some More Internet Haikus

Who’s up.

Erin May 30, 2016 13 Comments
Food and Drink

How to Throw the Perfect (Gay) Soda Tasting for (Gay) You and Your (Gay) Friends

Soda tastings are great if you’re underage, you and/or your friends don’t drink alcohol, or you just want to mix it up. Also, soda’s way cheaper than wine. Wine tastings are so 2000 and late.

Mey May 30, 2016 20 Comments
Society + Culture

Also. Also. Also: The U.S. Women’s Soccer Team isn’t F*cking Around and Other Stories for Your Face

Links upon links upon more links! Three women stop a rape, Ellen wants to be the Vice President, U.S. women’s soccer team is ready to strike, Mars and Earth are getting cozy, $300 vagina massages, lesbian adoption, Colonial intersex history, Harry Potter Constitution lessons, Peaches and more, more, more!

KaeLyn May 30, 2016 19 Comments
House & Garden

Helping You Help Yourself #28

Getting back in touch with old friends despite awkwardness, what to do if you’re being underpaid, freshening up your mattress, organizing your tea and more!

Rachel May 30, 2016 10 Comments
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