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A reader asked for some wedding looks for a person with an androgynous/femme aesthetic that they could wear to a straight family member’s wedding and I immediately asked to make a style guide because getting fancy for grandma while still feeling like myself is one of my favorite things to do.

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Share your feelings with your partner, stud.

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Masculine-of-Center Roundtable: How We Do It and What It Means To Us

“To me, being masculine-of-center means boyishness, it means blurring gender lines, it means a more vulnerable and delicate form of masculinity. It gives me the freedom to not fulfill expectations based on my assigned gender and body.”

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These are the ladies who made kickass sculptures, movies, music, children’s books, regular grown-up-books and, of course, wrote fabulous, sick, neurotic, tortured love poems to one another.

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YouTube channels, homes for homeless LGBT youth, puppies, engagement, feminism and more!!

Ari August 20, 2017 15 Comments
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Waverly and Nicole have to work together to try to save Wynonna…the only problem is, they don’t remember her.

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Cameron August 19, 2017 27 Comments
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Femme Brûlée: Buttermilk Pancakes

If you could use a comfort food lift or a recipe to make your own memories with or you just love delicious breakfast carbs, I hope you’ll give these a try.

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Heather Hogan August 18, 2017 12 Comments
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Things I Read That I Love #244: How We Want To Taste, How We Wish To Be Known.

Topics include women in the KKK, the Confederate flag, women’s magazines as aspirational employment centers, smartphones & teenagers, Captain EO, murder, the stories we tell ourselves and more.

Riese August 18, 2017 6 Comments
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We can do this. I mean we can probably do this. I mean get in here and let’s do this together.

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Nora August 18, 2017 7 Comments
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