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Future Present: Talking with Johanna Hedva About the Luxury of Our Needs

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Culture

Culture Of Resistance: Tending The Garden, Ending Grind Culture

People who are overworked, under resourced and overwhelmed do not question, do not push back, do not revolt. How do we dismantle grind culture and cultivate a new culture of rest to collectively sustain our focus on the future?

LaLa Drew August 6, 2020 13 Comments
Culture

Juniper Moon Folk Arts: Crafters, Activists, and the Glories of Gas Station Food

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Lauren Parker June 14, 2020 1 Comment
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How to Take Care of Each Other: Community Care In Times Of Crisis

“When we’ve all broken past the fear of being burdens on others, when we as communities learn how to ask for and give help and support, we’ll be able to take care of each other.”

Abbie Jones June 8, 2020 17 Comments
Culture

BUFU’s Cloud 9 Builds New Networks of Care for QTPOC During the Pandemic and Beyond

“We want to create the interconnectedness necessary to build futures together.”

Elle McKenzie May 21, 2020
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Organizing A Sex Work COVID-19 Relief Fund Restored My Faith In Community

People are coming together around this thing we’re doing – and so many other mutual aid projects – and it’s more powerful and vibrant than almost anything I’d experienced in a decade of activism.

Kai Cheng May 19, 2020 1 Comment
Culture

Using Seeds and Soil, Cuir Kitchen Brigade Helps People Feed Themselves and Their Neighbors Through the Coronavirus Pandemic

Our way is a commitment to long lasting change, to self-sufficiency, to inter-dependence and to creating the world we want to see.

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Culture

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Bani Amor May 12, 2020 11 Comments
Culture

Country Queers Documents the Myriad Experiences of Rural LGBTQIA Americans

“Community is a very complicated and roomy word. Rural queer people also have other layers of identity that inform their realities.”

Lauren Parker May 9, 2020 6 Comments
Culture

Lesbian Visibility Day Roundtable: The Art In Your Lesbian Canon

What is in your lesbian canon? What books, movies and music do you consider essential lesbian material and/or lesbian art that is essential to your own understanding of your identity?

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Straight People Watch: Quarantine Edition

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Erin April 24, 2020 49 Comments
Culture

This Queer Ink Maker Is Using Alchemy to Turn Pain and Chaos Into Art

“Ink revolutionized our way of speaking, the ideas of the dead are recorded in ink, the dead speak through ink, it just had this really mystical element to it.”

Lauren Parker April 11, 2020 2 Comments
Culture

Meet The Queer Activist Teaching Sex Ed to LGBTQ Appalachian Youth

“Bad sex education for queer kids it’s so violent and erasing and makes kids in rural places feel even more isolated.”

Lauren Parker March 14, 2020 5 Comments
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“I’ve come to embrace that ‘lack of decorum’ that I grew up in.”

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“There are gay rednecks, there have always been gay rednecks, and there always will be too.”

Lauren Parker January 11, 2020 10 Comments
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17 Very Good Queer Meme Instagram Accounts to Follow

Good queer memes will make you smile and laugh and cry and accept the mortifying ordeal of being known.

Vanessa December 17, 2019 8 Comments
Culture

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Culture

The Communist Pleasure Activism That’s Helping Erase Medical Debt in Appalachia

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Lauren Parker November 9, 2019 12 Comments
Culture

At Home in Ourselves: Bi+ Women on How They’re Staying Connected to Queer Identity while Dating Men

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Amileah Sutliff September 27, 2019 7 Comments
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Celebrate Bisexuality Day 2019: The Future Is Bisexual

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