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Book Features NSFW Sunday

Sinclair Sexsmith on “Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica”: The Autostraddle Interview

“The questions quickly became, what is BDSM? And what is lesbian? I’m not sure I know the answer in general, but I figured out a context for this anthology to be born into, some parameters about kinks and fetishes and gender.”

Ryan Yates April 8, 2012 26 Comments
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Looking into Writers’ Bedrooms, Personal Style, Lives

Carolyn’s Team Pick: Flannery O’Connor’s looks like it would be good for napping.

Ryan Yates April 4, 2012 27 Comments
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The Days Of Yore: Writers and Artists Before “Making It”

“In high school I worked at McDonald’s. Got fired. I worked at a fabric store. Got fired. In college I worked as a custodian. Got fired. Wasn’t too good at the physical stuff. One person asked me if I was so bad on purpose or whether I was really that uncomprehending of the relation between soap and water.”

Riese March 30, 2012 17 Comments
Book Features

Adrienne Rich is Dead

“She died / a famous woman / denying // her wounds / denying // her wounds / came / from the same source as her power.”

Riese March 28, 2012 50 Comments
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Watch Rachel Maddow on Letterman, Listen to Her on Fresh Air, Then Win a Copy of “Drift!”

Win a signed copy of Rachel Maddow’s new book!

Rachel March 27, 2012 87 Comments
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Autostraddle Book Club #5: The Hunger Games (Plus Movie Feelings OPEN THREAD)

HI, IT’S HERE, THE MOVIE IS HERE

the team March 22, 2012 109 Comments
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For Anyone Who Likes Sex, Feelings, Love Letters, Books, All Of The Above

Carmen’s Team Pick: This is a Melissa Gira Grant appreciation post.

Carmen March 14, 2012 10 Comments
Book Features

In Which You May Avail Yourself of Free Advice On How and Why to Write

Rachel’s Team Pick: “When one writes a thing — when you discover and then put it down, which is the essence of discovering it — one is done with it. What people get out of it is none of the writer’s business.”

Rachel February 14, 2012 6 Comments
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Autostraddle Book Club #5: We’re Reading The Hunger Games!

Has anyone else not read this yet? No? Just me?

Rachel February 8, 2012 136 Comments
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Who Runs the Literary World? These Girls!

Rachel’s Team Pick: Trying to make a list of only 10 badass women writers is really hard.

Rachel January 24, 2012 15 Comments
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Maurice Sendak Is Curmudgeonly, Brilliant, Tells You To Go To Hell

Whitney’s Team Pick: Maurice Sendak, author of “Where the Wild Things Are” is as brilliant and curmudgeonly as ever in this mini documentary. I love you, Maurice.

Whitney Pow January 2, 2012 15 Comments
Book Features

End Times Approach For LGBT Newsweekly, Gay Bookstore and Feminist Bookstore

Hard times for Portland’s Just Out Newsmagazine, Toronto’s Glad Day’s bookstore and Minneapolis’ True Colors Bookstore.

Carmen December 29, 2011 8 Comments
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Get A Conversation with Eileen Myles All To Yourself

I want to help you have a conversation with Eileen Myles. It starts on the Internet.

Carmen December 19, 2011 9 Comments
Book Features Pets & Animals

Everything Is Better With Cats, Especially Books

Fuzzy things are the most interesting, if you ask me.

Carmen December 5, 2011 8 Comments
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Rejection Letters Are Good For You, Especially When They’re Not For You

Carmen’s Team Pick: That’s what rejection letters are y’all. They’re just mistakes.

Carmen November 24, 2011 16 Comments
Book Features

On Style, Eileen Myles

Everything about this is something you love.

Rachel November 2, 2011 21 Comments
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Lady Writers Win More Book Prizes, Take Leap In Right Direction

The National Book Award finalists have been announced, and a majority of them are by female authors.

Ryan Yates October 13, 2011 7 Comments
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Marcel the Shell Has Shoes On, Also New Children’s Book

“Well, you know what they say: Lint is a shell’s best friend.”

Intern Grace October 5, 2011 13 Comments
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Banned Books Week: The Conspiracy to Shield Queer Books From Your Eyes

School libraries are one of the best places to find LGBT teen literature…which is why anti-gay adults are so afraid of them. Luckily, you can do something about that.

Rose October 1, 2011 41 Comments
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Autostraddle Book Club #4: We’re Reading Fun Home!

We’re going to read Alison Bechdel’s Fun Home and it’s going to be great.

Rachel September 29, 2011 56 Comments
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