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From Russia, With Messy, Complicated and Sometimes Conditional Love

“Like Russia itself, my parents’ instincts are torn. My birth country can’t make up its mind whether it wants its culture to be a part of liberal Europe or conservative Asia, my birth parents can’t make up their minds between simply loving their only child and feeling like there is something fundamentally broken about me now.”

Zhenia February 5, 2014 27 Comments
Sex Toys Valentine's Day

30 Super Lesbosexy Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

What to get someone for Valentine’s Day when you have no idea what to get someone for Valentine’s Day but you do like sex. Vibrators, strap-ons, robot cufflinks and more.

Ryan Yates February 5, 2014 15 Comments
Music

Mixcard: Combining Postcards and Playlists for a Musical Love Explosion

A personalized playlist postcard is the perfect (alliterative!) Valentine’s Day gift for the queer who has everything!

Maggie February 5, 2014 4 Comments
TV News & Trailers

Piers Morgan Misgenders Janet Mock on CNN, Insults Her on Twitter

Piers Morgan proved once again that the media still has a long way to go when it comes to learning to talk to trans women. He also proved that he has a long way to go when it comes to being a mature twitter user.

Mey February 5, 2014 57 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Taking a Look Back at Hourly Comic Day 2014

On the first day of February, comic creators from all over the place try to draw one comic for every hour they’re awake. Here are some from the artists I’ve featured in this column.

Mey February 5, 2014 4 Comments
Music

GIVEAWAY: Win Tickets To Mary Lambert’s Intimate Valentine’s Day Show In New York

No matter what your romantic situation, seeing Mary Lambert for free sounds like a pretty ideal way to spend one’s Friday night.

Stef February 5, 2014 66 Comments
First Person

Dear Queer Diary: To Burn Or Not To Burn?

What say you, my dear queer diarists? Are your journals destined to go up in flames? Or are you already planning the exhibition on your journal-writing career?

Maggie February 5, 2014 23 Comments
Breakups

Top 10 Special Weirdo Things I’ve Done Since My Very First Break Up

“Sat in my car listening to a police scanner app for an hour for no particular reason “

Lauren February 4, 2014 80 Comments
Politics + Activism

We Won A Thing: Scotland Legalises Same-Sex Marriage, Braces For Bad Weather

As per UKIP prophecy, torrential rains await Holyrood as Scottish gays might be able to get hitched as soon as this autumn.

Fikri February 4, 2014 18 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Make A Thing: Valentine’s Day Crafts Roundup

Valentine’s Day is a perfect excuse to bust out the cutest and most adorable crafts ever.

Hansen February 4, 2014 7 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Lost Girl 404: Everyone’s Full of Feels

Bo comes home, Tamsin grows up and Lauren and Betty McRae have the most awkward post-sex process ever.

Kristen February 4, 2014 3 Comments
Poetry and Fiction

Intense Lesbian Fanfiction, Part One: Blaze Is Here

“The night was deep and dark over Ellen DeGeneres’ Burbank mansion. Inside her mahogany themed living room, Ellen sat in a velvet high back chair and quietly sipped whisky out of a crystal glass.”

Emma Hunsinger February 4, 2014 57 Comments
Politics + Activism

Jacqueline Nantumbwe Must Stay: Why the Current UK System For LGB Asylum Seekers is Broken

The UK Border Agency has detained Ugandan asylum seeker Jacqueline Nantumbwe, placing her at risk of abuse and deportation unless she can “prove” she’s gay.

Fikri February 4, 2014 12 Comments
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We Need Help: Seeking New Fashion Writers

If you’ve ever felt like Autostraddle could be the perfect place to put your words about fashion, style & beauty for a smart queer lady audience, your time has come!

the team February 4, 2014 15 Comments
Society + Culture

The Problem With The Reaction to the Reaction to Coke’s “America the Beautiful” Commercial

It’s easy to be enraged by these kind of tweets and statuses but it’s really just lazy journalism that obscures the real issues.

Yvonne February 3, 2014 37 Comments
Politics + Activism

Five Things You Should Know About the New Report on Low Abortion Rates in the U.S.

I know you’re thinking it’s definitely because of the 205 draconian abortion laws enacted over the past few years, but this study actually suggests that abortion rates are going down because of birth control and family planning. And the economy.

Maddie February 3, 2014 2 Comments
The L Word

Latin Lovers and Spicy Bombshells: What “The L Word” Got Wrong About Latinas

The truth is that Carmen and Papi are Latina characters who perpetuated sweeping generalizations about Latin@ Folks and ultimately made matters worse.

Yvonne February 3, 2014 37 Comments
First Person

Top 15 Things I Wrote In My Journal Without Context: January Edition

“I guess if I freak the fuck out so much at the prospect of someone reading my journal then I should probably stop doing the things I end up writing about but that seems unattainable at this point in my life.”

Brittani February 3, 2014 19 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Let’s Get These Teen Hearts Beating Faster

A collection of mostly pop punk songs designed to send you down a rabbit hole of spirited angst.

Adrian February 3, 2014 28 Comments
Geekery

Star Trek N00b, Episode 9: Miri (Why Kids Are Great In Horror Movies)

Spock and Bones use their fancy future tech and floppy disks to answer a pressing questions: How does the human race continue for 300 years on a planet without adults?

Loraine February 3, 2014 7 Comments
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