I love getting to see this show through her eyes; I don’t think I’d enjoy it half as much if I was watching it on my own without her as a guide.

Halloween costume time is the best time of year to tower over your girlfriend or best friend or partner (or vice versa).

Highlights include Susan Saran-dom, Corn-Fed Xena, and simply: Tár.

So many homosexy lesbian tumblr alerts, we thought it was time we start making an official list! Also; getting Your Vagina Vajazzled, sans-vibrator orgasm tips, sex advice, the importance of sexual expression, “Coyote Ugly” but naked and so much moar!

So many women who’ve suffered death by television and just-so-happened to also like other women.

Natasha Lyonne’s Poker Face trailer, watch Willow instead of pining for a Xena reboot, Aubrey Plaza will host SNL, and more!

5. Russian Doll: literally just the whole show

From Doctor Who and Star Trek to Buffy and Wynonna Earp, sci-fi has been one of the more consistent places we, as queer people, have been able to find ourselves on TV over the past few decades. Here are the top 100 of our best.

“I was kinda scared of Barbie the way I was scared of all beautiful women…”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya returns to her stabby gay list from 2019 with some important updates.

“I know, now the thought of sleeping in is just as exciting as a full blown affair to me.”

“We met in 1995. I was in grad school and had a job at the campus women’s center. I helped her hang an art show. We later hung out at a feminist science fiction convention. We’ve been together ever since.”

As the discourse around queer actors playing queer parts heats up, there is increasing pressure on actors with queer parts to come out.

“Okay this Cheerios bee is a lesbian, but I’d be worried if any of my friends were dating them.”

“Ok someone had previously asked if Autostraddle was going to write a piece on How To Build a Sex Room and I did not realize it was a SHOW I just thought someone was requesting extremely specific DIY content?????”

“I think the greatest compliment that we’ve gotten was somebody in the audience at TIFF saying how happy they were to see a show that wasn’t cynical at all.”

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“So many people struggle with getting out of their head and into their body during sex.”

Dykey swagger is something you either have or you don’t, it’s something you either know or you don’t. It’s not really definable; it just is.