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Lesbian Sex: Your 15 Favorite Ways To Have It
How do lesbians have sex? Well, we have an actual answer for you: here are the 15 sex acts we consider a regular part of our sex lives.
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How to Finger Your Partner When You Have Chronic Pain in Your Hands
A few minor adjustments can make fingering easier, even when chronic pain is cramping your style.
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Queer Sex Horror Stories: The Tale of the Lost Butt Plug
I had them lean over my bed, and that’s when I saw it: My submissive’s hungry hole had swallowed the butt plug.
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I’m a Trans Woman, and This Is What’s in My Sex Bag
I have the profound misfortune of being a germaphobe who is very into anal sex.
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5 Lube Dispensers for Your Next Queer Hookup — Because Presentation Is Everything
If you want to look extra put-together, it’s time to upgrade your lube dispenser.
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How to Masturbate When You’re Sexually Repressed
Here’s how to masturbate when shame is getting in your way.
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Remembering Deborah Sundahl, Lesbian Porn Pioneer
Two months ago, we lost Deborah Sundahl — a fierce, compassionate, and prolific queer elder.
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Don’t Let Your Nail Length Stop You From Having Great Sex
1998 called — they said sorry for pushing stereotypes about nails and queer sex. Shelli and Ro are here to set the record straight.
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25 Streaming Movies With Hot Lesbian Sex Scenes
Here are some of the most memorable movies in the canon of “films that have significant lesbian sex in them.”
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10 Hot Things You Can Do to Boobs, Chests, and Nipples
It’s spring! Tits the season for appreciating boobs, chests, and nipples — so let’s do some chestploration and nipple stimulation!
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How Black Queer and Trans Folks Can Get Involved in the Kink Community
In the hands of Black queer and trans folks, kink can be deeply healing and transformative.
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You Need Help: How Can I Make Penetration Less Painful?
You shouldn’t have pain during sex. If you want to explore penetration, that has to be a choice you’re making for your own pleasure.
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Endometriosis No Longer Keeps Me From My Best Queer Sex
For the first time I was able to experience, without pain, the feeling of having my partner’s fingers inside of me and we found a new level of intimacy and excitement… How did I spend an entire decade of my life letting the medical system tell me that constant pelvic pain was acceptable?
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How Do I Approach Sex With My Partner of Six Years While We’re Both Navigating Trauma?
The lack of sex that resulted from our wildly differing needs has had a lasting impact.
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Netflix’s “The Principles of Pleasure” Invites Us Out of Shame and Into the Light
Pleasure can be sexual, but it also doesn’t have to be. I think I could have a healthier relationship with sex and my body by defining what pleasure means for me, without the influence of sex and attraction.
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Yes, Some Of Us Use Dental Dams (And They’re Hot)
I attended the Chicago Pride Parade, where safer sex advocates tossed dental dams in shiny squares of plastic from a float. Thrilled, I swept them up, put them in my bag and promptly put them to use.
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How to Masturbate Like a Champ
May is Masturbation Month! Here’s your guide to doing you as only you can.
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Sex Tips for When You’re Stranded in the Canadian Wilderness Post-Plane Crash With No Rescue Team in Sight
Do you really want to be that person who survived a plane crash and then died from putting a literal stick up their ass? No, you don’t.
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Here’s Your Full Video Workshop Breaking Down Everything You Need to Know for Strap-On Sex
The latest in Queer Sex 101, our series of real live queer people teaching you everything you need to know about real queer sex continues, with a one-hour workshop from sex educator, Autostraddle writer, SLICK editor and More, Please! editor Ro White on strap-on sex.
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You Deserve to Practice Elaborate Masturbation in Your Life; Here’s How
I once described a particularly elaborate session I’d had to a friend, and she seemed shocked and impressed. “You like, really love yourself, huh?” I do. I really do. And you can too!