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girl and hanukkah boyfriend "round and round"
Jewish Holidays Movie Reviews

We Got High and Watched Hallmark Hanukkah Movie “Round and Round,” and Yes of Course the Sister Is a Lesbian

“Do you think we think everyone is gay because they are or because we are or because we are high or because of Jewish?”

Drew Burnett Gregory and Riese
December 13, 2023 7 Comments
A menorah glows on the last night of Hanukkah, the candles almost burnt out, the background complete darkness.
Jewish Holidays

The Limits and Possibilities of an Anti-Zionist Hanukkah

For me, and so many Jewish people, the lack of certainty, the encouragement of complex discussion, is what connects us to our faith.

Drew Burnett Gregory December 11, 2023 20 Comments
a watch, a lamp with a snake base, a jar of Fly by Jing chili crisp, a lime green baggu bag, and a pink electric kettle
Christmas Jewish Holidays Shopping

Autostraddle + For Them’s Ultimate Team Holigay Gift Guide 2023!

Here’s what the Autostraddle and For Them teams want as gifts this season!

the team November 24, 2023 2 Comments
Christmas Jewish Holidays Shopping

Matching Holiday Pajama Sets for Your Super Cute Queer Fam

When my partner and I got together, one of the things I was most excited about were the matching family pajamas for Christmas we were going to get.

Sa'iyda Shabazz November 21, 2023 7 Comments
Passover table setting with a traditional Passover seder plate with symbolic meal, matzah and Haggadah.
First Person Jewish Holidays

At the Passover Table, New Traditions Will Be Born

This year feels like the first of many years where I begin to truly incorporate my partner’s cultural traditions into our family.

Sa'iyda Shabazz April 5, 2023 7 Comments
Cover of Haggadah Min HaMeitzar. It includes the Yachatz silk painting with three vertical matzot where one looks like the earth split into two. It also includes the text "Haggadah Min HaMeitzar A Seder Journey to Liberation by Gabriella Spitzer."
Jewish Holidays

The Traditional and Radical Queer Haggadah I Wanted Didn’t Exist — So I Wrote It Myself

Nowadays, I ask, “how can my queerness deepen my Judaism, and how can my Judaism deepen my queerness?” Haggadah Min HaMeitzar is one answer to that question.

G March 26, 2023 13 Comments
Four hamentaschen cookies are dressed up in masks and costumes against a yellow background. Very silly and very cute.
Jewish Holidays

How To Create Purim Rituals That Celebrate Being Queer

Purim is one of the queerest Jewish holidays. Let’s celebrate accordingly.

Abby Stein March 5, 2023 13 Comments
A pink frame surrounds a photo of a mishloach manot, a gift basket specifically given to friends on Purim. The basket contains hamentaschen, a mask, noise makers, and other treats.
Jewish Holidays

Now Is the Perfect Time for Mishloach Manot

This tradition, which literally translates to “sending of portions,” involves creating care packages of food and drink to send to loved ones.

Lindsay Eanet March 3, 2023 5 Comments
beautiful hanukkah drawing of a menorah
Community Jewish Holidays

Hanukkah Lights From the Disabled Community

Creating new rituals and ways of expressing and celebrating Judaism is nothing new within our tradition — all that’s needed is some creativity and care.

Riley Aster December 20, 2022 9 Comments
an array of hanukkah goodies like gelt, dreidels, and menorahs resting on top of a light blue background
Jewish Holidays

Eight Ways To Spell ‘Hanukkah,’ as Regulars at Your Local Bar

There are many ways to spell Chanukah, and they’ve all got their own personality. Just for kicks, I imagined eight of them as people at an LGBTQ bar.

Eden Teller December 18, 2022 10 Comments
a collection of objects on an altar: a candle for healing, a framed photo, a hand-drawn picture of a little bird
Jewish Holidays Queer Pregnancy

Hold Us in the Light

The thing about miscarriage is that the word itself does no justice to the great tragedy that it is. There are very few things I know anymore, but I do know this: Birdie will always be a part of our Hanukkah story.

Risa Lichtman December 17, 2020 31 Comments
A collection of celebration objects on a table
Jewish Holidays

Dedication and Liberation, or What Does a Queer Black Hanukkah Look Like

What does Hanukkah look like when you’re a queer, Black, convert who doesn’t find deep meaning in traditional celebrations of the holiday?

Ari December 10, 2020 11 Comments
Rosh Hashanah theme on a white background including apples, honey, and pomegranates to symbolize the Jewish New Year
Jewish Holidays

How to Celebrate the Jewish High Holidays During a Pandemic

I hope that no matter what you’re doing, you’re able to find a tiny piece of joy, a small bite of sweetness. Amen.

Vanessa September 17, 2020 8 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Gey In Kikh: Passover Matzo, the Bread of Affliction

The basic mitzvah of Passover is to eat the Bread of Affliction, so let’s lean into the ancestral trauma and make our own matzo.

Ari April 6, 2020 13 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Gey in Kikh: Easy Pizza Hamantaschen for Purim

With a side of festive demons!

Ari March 9, 2020 4 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Gey in Kikh: Seven Species Babka for Tu B’Shevat

Seven fruits and grains combine in a quick-rise babka to celebrate the Jewish New Year of the Trees.

Ari February 6, 2020 3 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Gey in Kikh: Happy New Year!

Celebrate the New Year with Soviet mayonnaise.

Ari December 30, 2019 12 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Gey in Kikh: Rainbow Latkes and Narrow Bridge Candles for Hanukkah

Why have plain latkes when we can have RAINBOW latkes?!

Ari December 9, 2019 13 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Gey in Kikh: Melon Seed Milk to Break the Yom Kippur Fast

Let’s end Yom Kippur with delicious, non-dairy milk made from melons!

Ari October 4, 2019 2 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Gey in Kikh: Apple-Stuffed Challah for Rosh Hashanah!

Taste a whole celebration of fall and a new year in every bite of my favorite challah!

Ari September 26, 2019 24 Comments
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