“The Stanley Parable” Is a Quirky Video Game Break From the Ol’ 9 to 5

Are you all familiar with Steam? Probably most of you are, but, just in case any of you don’t know, Steam is a free online platform where you can download thousands of games (though they have less for Macs, unfortunately). If you have a decent enough computer I highly recommend it, especially for new gamers, because you can try out some different types of games without committing to a whole console.

One of the best and worst things about Steam is that they are constantly running sales and they will email you when a game from your wishlist has a reduced price. This is extremely handy most of the time, but every once and awhile they will have a huge sale and, if you’re me, you end up with about a dozen tempting emails over the span of like two days. And maybe even though you don’t actually need any new games, you go a little crazy and make a few or six impulse purchases.

One of the games I bought on my holiday spending spree — though I’m not sure I should call it a spending spree; I got six games for about $16, so that feels pretty much fiscally responsible — is called The Stanley Parable. It won a Steam Award and looked super intriguing, so I decided to take a break from Dragon Age: Origins and give it a play.

[DA:O aside: I finally romanced Leliana! We spent a beautiful night together (and then again the next morning – heyo!); it was much better than the sex worker I accidentally banged. Wynne is concerned that I’m putting my relationship with Leliana ahead of the cause, but I told her not to worry because True Love is the most important thing.]

The Stanley Parable was definitely a nice change of pace from a really long, intricate game like DA:O. You can literally playthrough and beat the game in about ten minutes, though I recommend playing through multiple times to get the most out of it. It’s a pretty weird and unsettling game, which is made immediately clear in the beginning of the game’s description: “The Stanley Parable is a first person exploration game. You will play as Stanley, and you will not play as Stanley.”

The Stanley Parable centers around the monotony of office life, so if you work a boring 9 to 5 that you hate, this game might hit a little close to home. Stanley, the narrator informs us during the game’s intro, has been working the same job, doing the same thing for many years. He receives orders and he pushes the buttons he is told to push. One day, Stanley stops receiving orders. He hangs out in his office for a while (hours, days, weeks, years), before finally deciding to explore the rest of the building to figure out what happened. Maybe.

Talk about working for the weekend, amirite?

If you have any inkling to play this game, which I wholeheartedly recommend, you should stop reading now. This is definitely one of those games where it’s best to go in as blind as possible and enjoy the strange and quirky ride. It’s clever and funny and sometimes a little scary, especially if you’re a wimp like me. Go pick it up on Steam, play it, and then you’re allowed to come back and read the rest.

Okay, everyone gone? Only still here if you’ve either played already or have no interest in ever picking this game up? Good.

I found The Stanley Parable to be such a fun, peculiar, interesting little game, but I can imagine that some people might think it was a bit too clever for its own good. The gameplay is very simple; you navigate Stanley around the office using and can only interact with some of the items around, mainly doors and buttons. The thing that sets The Stanley Parable apart from other games is the narration.

As you progress through the office, the narrator describes what Stanley is thinking and where he wants to go. For instance, at one point the narrator remarks that Stanley wants to use a particular door so he can go to the conference room. If you take Stanley through the other door, the narrator adjusts his dialogue to decide that Stanley first wants to look at the break room, even though he knows perfectly well it will be empty.

The conference room slides are too real.

If you listen to everything the narrator says, you can beat the game quickly and easily. Sort of. It’s up to you if you really think that ending is actually the end. There are lots of other “endings,” though, depending on how and when you defy the narrator. Take this decision, for example:

If you try to follow the escape sign, the narrator proclaims, “At the end of this hall, Stanley would meet his violent death.” And he’s not wrong, per say, but it’s not as simple as that either. There are many ways to experience the game and all the endings I’ve seen so far have been interesting and worthwhile.

At its core, the game is about following orders; do you make Stanley follow through with the narration or do you defy it?

Do you keep on defying the narrator even when he starts to get angry or threatens you? When he makes you think maybe you have made the wrong choices?

That escalated quickly.

I am assuming the game’s name is a reference to Dr. Stanley Milgram, the Yale psychologist who ran the famed Milgram experiment. The Milgram experiment, if you haven’t heard of it, was all about how people are willing to act against their consciences to remain obedient to authority figures.

It’s pretty fascinating stuff (if you’re interested, there’s a good fictional account in the form of a novel by Chip Kidd called The Learners), and The Stanley Parable puts a new, interactive twist on the concept. Here’s where I would normally tell you — again — to go play it, but if you have read this far down the page then you already have played it. Right?

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  1. I picked up this game during the Christmas Steam sale, and have not played it yet, so saving this article for a future read. Thanks!

  2. I just put this on my Wishlist, so I didn’t read the article.

    In other STEAM news, I just beat “The Room 2”. I loved it and the first one. If anybody knows of puzzle games like that, please reply to me.

    • what if I told you there is a “The Room 3”? I’ve only played it on my phone, so I’m not sure about Steam, but it definitely exists!

      The Room games are some of my favorite! I’ve also unfortunately never found anything quite like it :(

  3. That sounds interesting. Thanks for the review.

    Hey, and way to go in your Leliana romance! Wynne always says something about any romance, as I recall, but she does at least care about you enough to say something. I’m willing to forgive Wynne pretty much anything.

    • Also, is the Milgram experiment one of the ones where they shock people? They seemed to like doing that a lot, as I recall from my (one) psychology class in college. I did Accounting and never got to shock anyone, lol. =)

      • Yup, that’s the one. It’s super interesting – if you have some extra time, I recommend reading up on it. :)

  4. I like to use this game as a sort of psychological experiment by watching friends play this to see where they go with it ;). In al seriousness its one of those games thats also very fun to watch someone else play.

    I feel a strange kinship to the narrator when that happens.

    • Oh that totally does sound fun! Maybe I’ll see if I can get my wife to play :) Also, I love the narrator.

  5. Even though calling it a game in the traditional sense is a bit of a stretch, the Stanley Parable is still one of my favorite games. The Confusion Ending was my personal favorite, that fern is the real hero.

    Also anyone that likes Steam should check out Humble Bundle. You can pay whatever you want for collections of games and part of the money goes to charity (different bundles have different sponsored charities, or you can choose your own.) Some games are locked behind price tiers but you can frequently get up to a 10 games for around $15. Games are delivered in the form of Steam codes or can be downloaded directly. It’s a great way to access indie games that you might not have been able to commit to buying otherwise.

  6. I enjoyed reading your review!

    I picked up Stanley Parable right after playing Beginner’s Guide, and I actually found it a bit of a letdown? Like, it’s fine, but SO cynical. Just not what I was expecting, I think.

    • Thanks! I haven’t played Beginner’s Guide yet (though I’ve seen it pop up as recommended a bunch and have added it to my wishlist) so I can’t compare them, but I definitely hear you on the cynicalness of Stanley. For me, the tone of the game was dry/humorous enough that it didn’t bother me much. I’ll see how I feel after Beginner’s Guide, though :)

  7. Sounds like a neat game! I read the spoilers and I would still check it out. ? Also also–I wish Autostraddle would write more game reviews, because I really enjoy reading them!

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