The Lifespan of a Lesbian Heartbreak
That’s it, I’m dating myself.
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Mind The (Age) Gap: How to Do a May/December Lesbian Relationship
May-December (or even May-October) romances can present occasional challenges, they can also be awesome.
Having Fun at a Gay Bar 101: Girls Just Wanna Have Fun
At some point, between the night where my friend walked to her ex’s house with my keys, phone and money in her boot, the night where I sobbed to strangers about losing my credit card in the bathroom and the one where I held my friend’s hair as she vomited onto the street, I realized “Oh shit, this sucks.”
You Need Help: When Your Girlfriend is Abusive
“Two or three things I know, two or three things I know for sure, and one of them is that if we are not beautiful to each other, we cannot know beauty in any form.”
How Many Girls Want Girl-on-Girl Action?: A Sophisticated Statistical Analysis
Remember that time we told you 60% of heterosexual women were attracted to other women? Yeah that’s not true and it’s one of many numbers/statistics we’ll be discussing today!!
How to Have Lesbian Sex For the First Time: NSFW Sunday Special
This is how we do it, it’s Sunday night and I’m feeling right, the party is here on the Lez Side.
You Have A Lot of Feelings: The Wonderful World of D&Ms
If there is one thing lesbians love more than cats and beanies, it’s talking about their feelings.
You Need Help: Fake Orgasms and Potato Soup, Sorta
How to stop faking orgasms and start being honest about how you like your damn soup.
DeAnne Smith and The Dating Game
“Why are my arms so skinny? People can be friendly. Fuck, she’s so cute. Am I getting enough iron?”
You Need Help: Requisite Crush on a Barista
How do you successfully flirt with that adorable barista?
You Need Help: You Can’t Always Get What You Want
What do you do when you want to open a book and she wants to open your legs?
You Need Help: Falling in Love In One (Digital) Dimension
Can you fall in love and have a successful relationship with somebody you’ve never met?
How I Learned to Talk (In Bed): Why This Queer Woman Cares About Consent
I had already committed, in my mind, to taking on consent activism for the rest of my life. Then I came out of the closet.
You Need Help: Bottoms Up and Helping Your Girlfriend
Can a top be a bottom without selling her soul? And how to talk to a partner who isn’t what she used to be.
If You Ain’t No Punk Holla Gays Need Prenups GAYS NEED PRENUPS
“As an aspiring talk show host who also happens to be a lawyer and a formerly engaged Gay American, I know a lot about the ins and outs of marriage, legally and emotionally.”
Rejection 101: A Lesbian’s Guide To Getting Turned Down, Keeping Your Head Up
“It’s okay to be angry. It’s okay to feel misled. It’s okay to feel stupid. It’s okay to listen to ‘Jar of Hearts’ on repeat.”
I’m Neither Butch Nor A Top
“I’m rather tired of people reacting with shock when they find out I dress the way I do and identify as a bottom.”
The Politics of Lesbian Sex: Before, During, After
Before sex, during sex and after sex. Sex, sex, sexy sex.
Open Thread: The Perils of Being a First Girlfriend
Will your girl eventually want another girl? Is your long-term relationship robbing her of sexual growth and personal development? This is a good opportunity to talk about yourself under the guise of helping someone else.
Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About My Sexual Orientation And Were(n’t) Afraid To Ask
The eyes are all asking are you in, or are you out?
How to Date… Again
I emerged from the winter of my dating discontent with a few good rules, which are probably more like guidelines since I’m genetically incapable of following rules. So here they are…in all their fucked up glory. My four new rules for dating.