Results for: love is a lie
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Into the A+ Advice Box #37: D I V O R C E
Today we’re answering your questions about D I V O R C E! What if your girlfriend is already divorced and doesn’t want to get married again, what do you do when you’re about to meet your divorced date’s kid, and what do you say to someone when they tell you they’re divorced?
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Interview With My Girlfriend: Sadie
“Well, if the ceiling collapses, at least it won’t fall on us because this section of ceiling is already missing.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #55: So You’ve Developed Major Feelings for a Friend
Bed death, wanting to be told you’re beautiful, HOW do you date, dealing with two friends who started dating and more!
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S L I C K: The Best Them
When the speech was over, Cash walked up to their friends and hugged them only the way you would hug your best friends after fucking them in a Cheesecake factory bathroom.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #56: IMPOSTER SYNDROME, SELF-SABOTAGE, and SELF-DOUBT
A lack of focus, the road not taken, fear of dating — the team tackles these topics and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #44: WORK DRAMA
From frustrating job searches, to toxic leadership, from vaccine mandates to extreme nonprofit overwork, from coming out to a coworker to finding ways to actually enjoying downtime — the Autostraddle team addresses your questions about getting by in the workplace, being queer in your career, and making it through the day while surviving capitalism.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #47: How Do You Taper a Crush?
The team digs into questions about a partner’s conservative family, dealing with a crush on a new friend, figuring out what to wear for your wedding (!!!), and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #59: You Love Her But There’s No Passion
What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!
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S L I C K: The Maid Who Was Elegant
A Countess challenges her newest trans maid to make a sopping wet gamble. “The Countess said she could use whatever means necessary, and Myra had assumed she meant some form of corporal punishment. But the Countess was going to pee on her.”
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Some Answers to Some Things You Were Asking Us # 35
Why are there so many TV shows about high school kids who don’t act like high school kids at all?
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Into the A+ Advice Box #43: How Do You Reconnect With a Friend After Over a Year?
The Autostraddle team offers A+ members advice on topics from changing your name, to working as one of the only out queer teachers at a middle school, feeling pulled between different causes, maybe finally taking a break from a draining friendship, feeling like you don’t fit into queer community, and so much more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #67: Surviving the End of a 9-Year Relationship
Looking for children’s books with queer moms, binding as a cis woman, communications issues in relationships, and more!
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S L I C K: Raincheck Part 1
You are just picking up Naomi. Your very good friend, Naomi, whom you have only not-so-jokingly offered to take up on her not-so-joking offer to fuck for a decade. She literally just got emotionally gut punched by some fuckboy. Don’t be another fuckboy. Not today. Unless she initiates. Fuck, she always initiates. Fuck, I missed my exit.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #57: Can You Ask Someone Out While They’re Working?
Is it bad that your type is queer mascs / butches, are you burnt out, and how do you move on after your partner cheats on you with your best friend? The team answers all these questions, and more in our members-only advice column!
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Between Orbits: Two Manipulators, Pulled Out of Abuse and Back
Or, the queer urge to almost form a cult with a straight woman.
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #37
“Heather Hogan’s misandry gives me LIFE.” Welcome to Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us: in which the Autostraddle senior team answers q’s A+ members send in, freaks out with you over exciting news and responds to your all-consuming need to share various things!
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The Autostraddle Insider: Goodbye Rachel Edition
“i’m going to take a shower and see if it [amy lee voice] wakes me up inside”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #49: Wanting to Want Monogamy
Crushing on your therapist, a partner controlling your time with friends, the long-term impacts of gaslighting, maybe getting married again, making adult friends via Facebook groups — the AS team gives A+ members advice on these topics, and more!
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A Scene & Notes From Kamala’s Novel Zigzags
I’m sharing part of a scene from the book that captures the essence of why I love to write fiction: so I can write the fantasy dates with girls I adore, whether or not they happened quite that way.
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S L I C K: Caterpillar Girls
You think, I would let her drink me dry, and shudder into obedience when she kisses you again.