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Sex

You Need Help: My Partner Can’t Have an Orgasm

“Release yourself from responsibility. You are not the keeper of your partner’s orgasms. You’re a supporting character. Your partner should play the protagonist in their Great Orgasm Quest.”

Ro White January 6, 2020 8 Comments
Gender Music

Six Songs You Love That Are Actually About Being Trans

I’m not trying to win you over to my interpretation of the lyrics of any of these songs; but I am inviting you to explore the world within each of them. Looking at songs we love through a trans lens can teach us new things about our gender.

Amina Shareef Ali January 6, 2020 29 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q

“To L and Back” Gen Q Podcast 105

Can something be both sad and hot? Time and again The L Word proves the answer is yes!

Drew Burnett Gregory January 6, 2020 5 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q TV Show Recaps

The L Word Generation Q Episode 105 Recap: Labels

We’ve got some breakups and breakdowns and questionable drunken decisions and a THRIVING new throuple and a school play with a very small cast and also Quiara’s still in town and she’s got a big surprise for Shane!

Riese January 5, 2020 79 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Was Born For Chani Nicholas’ New Book

Chani Nicholas’ new book, the nonbinary babes to watch out for, trans folks in the MCU and more! Happy Sunday!!!

Ari January 5, 2020 3 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is The Busiest Dating App Day of the Year

Today – January 5th – is the busiest dating app day of the year. Plus: A vibrator is a CES finalist, don’t live with your ex, and how to set boundaries around rough sex.

Ryan Yates January 5, 2020 2 Comments
Recipes

Femme Brûlée: Cranberry-Orange Muffins

You can be channeling citrus sunshine and tart jammy cranberry brightness too with a small amount of effort and 30 minutes of your time. Happy New Year.

Reneice Charles January 4, 2020 8 Comments
Webcomics

Baopu #68: My Hopes And Fears

Baopu shares hopes and fears, from keeping creativity to taking action, for the New Year.

Yao Xiao January 4, 2020 5 Comments
TV Reviews

“Marvel’s Runaways” Says Goodbye to Our Rainbow Lesbian Superhero and Her Goth Bisexual Witch Girlfriend

I had no idea how deeply into my heart these kids would burrow, nor did I know that within it I would find one of my favorite queer love stories of all time.

Valerie Anne January 3, 2020 9 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Reveling In Possibility

“IT’S HAPPENING!!! MY THREEWAY POLY PARENTING NIGHTMARE HAS BEGUN AND I AM A L I V E”

Darcy January 3, 2020 27 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #305: How Various Plaid Shirts Made Their Way Into My Closet

Topics include hangovers, ArtPrize, the George Foreman Grill, Patriotic Millionaires, The Talented Mr Ripley, 100 books that defined the decade, fair food, the year in pivoting to video and so much more!!

Riese January 3, 2020 9 Comments
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Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Don’t Read A Book A Week

Reading goals as a personal hell, memes as a new kind of formalism, a dare to not be productive and more.

Ryan Yates January 2, 2020 1 Comment
TV Reviews

“Atypical” Season Three Showcases Queer Teen Love in Familiar and Fresh Ways

The juxtaposition of Casey and Izzie’s coming-of-age tale with every gay teen love story that’s come before it highlights how much queer TV has grown over the last two decades. 

Heather Hogan January 2, 2020 9 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

The Full Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris Wedding Video Is Here and No You’re Not Done Crying About It

Come for the vows, stay for more Rapinoe in a tux.

Heather Hogan January 2, 2020 6 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: The First Recording of Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera Is Exactly The Energy You Need to Kick Off 2020

Julian Castro ends his presidential campaign, Amazon warriors were really real, very rare gays books, short and strong and weird meteor showers, and oh so much more.

Natalie January 2, 2020
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

What We Love and Hate About Dating Cancers

For those who believe in it, astrology can be a powerful tool for introspection and self-knowledge — or you can use it to talk shit about your ex and obsess over your crush. Journey with us as we do both, and then head to the comments to live your truth.

the team January 2, 2020 23 Comments
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Straddleverse

Call for Submissions: In Another World

As we head into the crisp, fresh beginning of 2020 and a new decade, we want to hear about your queerest, wildest dreams for the future. Deadline for submissions is January 31!

The Editors January 1, 2020 7 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: More Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris Wedding Hijinks!!

Also, Dana swung by the L Word set, how does Trace Lysette always look so effortlessly cool, feet for King Princess, Stacy London is dating a woman, and oh so much more.

Christina Tucker January 1, 2020 11 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Horoscopes for January 2020: In Which We Get Down to Brass Tacks

New year, new decade, and the most dramatic astrology of our lives. Buckle up and get ready to get real.

Corina Dross January 1, 2020 5 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Wait, Captain Marvel Is For Real Getting a Girlfriend?

Also, 90 Day Fiance gets its first gay couple, Lily Tomlin gets arrested with Jane Fonda, Carol gets more end-of-decade love, and Lena Waithe’s Twenties gets a premiere date.

Heather Hogan January 1, 2020 8 Comments
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