No Filter: More Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris Wedding Hijinks!!

Welcome to your first No Filter of 2020, where I am bringing you queer instagram excellence that is technically from last year!

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I can’t wait to marry you! @ashlynharris24 ❤️

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This is going on my vision board for the next decade, thank you!


Add this to the dictionary under “perfection,” posthaste!


OKAY THEN YOU MARRIED ANGEL!


Is this a joke? Megan are you kidding me?


Wedding day sibling love, we simply love to see it!


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NOT THAT IT’S ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS BUT… I may as well address all the stuff I hear floating around out there. 2019 has been a crazy year for lots of reasons. This 1st year of coping with grief and a lot of unforeseen health issues was, at times, such a truly dark place to be. But as with most of life, there has been such incredible joy as well and the person most responsible for that is @catyezbak, who is my girlfriend and has been for over a year. Some of you may have guessed that already. All my friends and family know her well. I haven’t paraded her around on social media for several reasons: 1) I’ve had public relationships before and I don’t love that. But I want to be clear here that with Cat I felt I owed us the chance to be private since this is my first serious relationship with a woman and I’m sure there will be some hoo ha about that. But I would never hide her out of shame. 2.) It’s really easy for me, a privileged white woman who is 50, to suddenly say “I’m dating a woman” with very few repercussions and I am well aware of that. Unlike me, there are countless people in the LGBTQIAP community who have had no choice in who they are, no love from family on which to lean, no support from anyone anywhere. I fell in love, truly in love, with this beautiful, sexy, kind soul and I won’t apologize for that but I stand on the shoulders of a community that fought like hell for me to be able to do that openly and proudly and EASILY. It’s one thing to SAY Love is Love. It’s another thing to say Love is Passion and Devotion and Sex and mean it without shame or prejudice when talking about the same sex. So I used to date men. Now I date her. That’s it. Happy New Year to each and every one of you. I am wishing you the best of everything this coming year. Bring it 2020. Let’s go. (AND ALSO: any awful comments will be deleted immediately. My account will not tolerate hate of any kind.)

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I CANNOT EXPLAIN HOW I HAPPY I AM TO HAVE THIS CONFIRMED, I HAVE BEEN ON THIS BEAT SINCE AUGUST, STACY LONDON IS A LEGEND I LOVE HER I AM SO HAPPY SORRY FOR THE ALL CAPS BUT MOSTLY I AM NOT SORRY!

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Trust me, Wait. For. It. 😘 #Danas

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In non wedding of the decade content, this happened and I lightly cried?


*insert row of cry face emoji*


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T A H I T I

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Hahahahahaha Janet okay sure just go around with this as your whole endealment, I’ll just be over here, being regular!!!!


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Where we going?

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Have you ever looked cool leaning against a car? I have not?? Trace, of course, nailed it.


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You heard her! Feet pics!


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Looking back at 2019…

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Amber and I start the decade still at an impasse, but maybe 2020 is our year!


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11 Comments

  1. “I fell in love, truly in love, with this beautiful, sexy, kind soul and I won’t apologize for that but I stand on the shoulders of a community that fought like hell for me to be able to do that openly and proudly and EASILY. It’s one thing to SAY Love is Love. It’s another thing to say Love is Passion and Devotion and Sex and mean it without shame or prejudice when talking about the same sex. So I used to date men. Now I date her. That’s it. That’s all I have to say.”

    Stunnnnning.

  2. I love Ali and Ashlyn as much as the next lesbian and I am over the moon for them. Their love makes me happy. It’s just that I can’t get over how ugly that suit from Ash is. I mean… is that American fashion? In a year you’ll look back on that and it is already a heavy dated look. But I’m just an old 33 year old so…

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