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6 Strategies For Reluctantly Talking to Men in Your Male-Dominated Workplace

Follow my advice and you’ll be well on your way to making apolitical small talk, scoring points for “likeability,” and building career-necessary rapport with 75+% of male coworkers!

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Business of Art Fix #35: Oh Gawker Were We Ever So Young

In which I say goodbye to Gawker.com for many words and also: freelancers getting fucked over by Vice, straight people reporting on LGBTQ stories and other fascinating tidbits of information and stories for you!

Riese September 1, 2016 11 Comments
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Business of Art Fix #34: FIRST

Univision buys Gawker, Arriana Huffington leaves The Huffington Post, Laur M. Jackson on “citation as a loving practice,” NPR shuts down comments, the worst clickbait headlines and so much more!

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This Business of Art Fix #33: First Step Twitter Verification, Next Step Fame and Inevitable Fortune

Topics include Twitter’s magical blue check, Nick Denton filing for bankruptcy, the case against the media by the media, and questions about the utility of alleged “neutrality” from journalists covering Trump.

Riese August 3, 2016 16 Comments
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This Business of Art Fix: Why Chase Clicks When You Can Chase Human Hearts

Topics include Talking Point Memo and The New York Times doubling-down on reader support, Twitter opening up verification to applicants, This shutting down, how to talk to your boss about your intesne workload and more!

Riese July 20, 2016 7 Comments
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Follow Your Arrow: Natural Builder Barbara Jones on 35 Years in Construction

“I’m doing something I really believe in, that can change people’s lives for ever, that’s good for the planet. I never get tired of talking about how to use natural materials, why they work, and looking at how they were used in the past.”

Beth July 14, 2016 16 Comments
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Business of Art Fix: Facebook’s News Feed “Tweaks” Could Hurt Indie Niche Publications Most Of All

Topics include the latest Facebook news feed tweak, Gaby Dunn on owning your work, goodbye to The Toast, the history of American Black media, the UVA/Rolling Stone story, Buzzfeed shutting down its Ottawa office and more!

Riese July 6, 2016 19 Comments
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Screen Writer and Performer Brittani Nichols’ Hot Tip for Success — Naps

“Life is hard and you should just do what you want to do. Luckily the things that I want seem sort of selfless because of my identity. If I was the aforementioned straight, able-bodied, cis, white guy, my career goals would be boring and unnecessary which is why I think they should all get out of entertainment.”

Beth June 30, 2016 8 Comments
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This Business of Art Fix #31: Bustle Sure Is Good At SEO and Other Important Stories

Topics include my personal problems with Bustle’s SEO strategy, beating airport boredom, Gawker Media filing for bankruptcy and more!

Riese June 23, 2016 12 Comments
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Follow Your Arrow: Coach Elizabeth Cooper on Grounding Her Business in Self Care

“An integral part of my business is to create and cultivate positive, meaningful, supportive relationships with everybody from my clients to my colleagues, people I’m renting space from, potential clients, etc. It’s important to me that my actions demonstrate my values that every person and every body deserves love, respect, and care.”

Beth June 16, 2016 7 Comments
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This Business Of Art Fix #30: Where Do You Work (From Home)?

Topics include sitting on the couch, the most popular political candidates on social media, work/life balance, changes at Longform and moar!

Riese June 8, 2016 19 Comments
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Business of Art Fix #29: If “The Toast” Was Your BFF You’d Respect Her Need To Move Out But Still Miss Her So Much

Topics include the closing of The Toast, layoffs at Vice and The NY Times, preparing for last-minute interviews, Buzzfeed’s shift towards video and so much more!

Riese May 25, 2016 30 Comments
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Follow Your Arrow: Gym Owner Nathalie Huerta on Hard F*cking Work

“I didn’t get any funding until year three and it came from a member who truly believed in me. Now in year six, funding opportunities are coming from multiple places, thank you baby Jesus, but all of those opportunities are coming my way from relationships I have formed, not from banks or investors.”

Beth May 19, 2016 12 Comments
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This Business of Art Fix #28: What If Your Most Important Financial Relationship Is With The Reader

Topics include why people pay for the New York Times but won’t pay for Buzzfeed, liberal bias in Facebook’s trending topics, how Bitch Magazine got started, being productive in your home office, how to turn a negative conversation around and so much more!

Riese May 11, 2016 15 Comments
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Follow Your Arrow: Dog Trainer Mary Tully on Clear, Loving Communication

“I knew I wanted to train animals by the age of 3. I didn’t know that I wanted to start this business until 3 years ago.”

Beth May 5, 2016 7 Comments
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9 PR Email Lists I’m Not Sure How I Got Added To

I don’t even know what materials research is. (Please don’t tell me.)

Rachel April 28, 2016 19 Comments
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This Business Of Art #27: Your Problem Is That You Make A Lot Of Cheap Shit

Topics include bold ladies, The Awl co-founder getting his first “real job,” a new Facebook algorithm, additional ad-blocking-related panic, a profitable “college paper on steroids” supported by 10, 0000 unpaid writers and more!

Riese April 27, 2016 6 Comments
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Follow Your Arrow: Artist and Priestess Rebekah Erev on Making Spirituality Accessible to All

“I think a lot of us [queers] have turned to art as a place to find meaning and access other realms. Art explains the unexplainable and gives us a space to explore the mysteries we are so fascinated by.”

Beth April 21, 2016 7 Comments
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Business Of Art Fix #26: Everybody Wants To Get Paid (Subscriptions)

Medium becomes a publishing platform, gay magazines are so very white, Facebook introduces live video, Spurned Elle Writer Goes On Totally Bananas Rant, proven conversation topics with strangers, Buzzfeed falls short of revenue projections and so much more!

Riese April 13, 2016 49 Comments
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This Business of Art Fix #25: Totally Prepared For The Digital Apocalypse

Topics include Gawker losing the Hulk Hogan case, digital media’s lack of geographic diversity, analytics-driven content production, Genius annotating personal sex stories, drinking with your clients and other crucial stories!

Riese March 30, 2016 11 Comments
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