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Queered & Careered: Five Unconventional Ways to Honor Yourself at Work

Honoring yourself is about creating fun, rejuvenating, life affirming practices that help you stay grounded and practice self-compassion. They should join you in life, and in work.

Tiara Dee March 10, 2020 5 Comments
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Queered & Careered: Tackling the Monster of Career-Envy

‪Jealousy will always be there. There will always be someone that you or society perceives to be smarter, stronger, or more competent than you. We must get curious about our jealousy – become friends with it, and then tell it to be productive or get going.‬

Tiara Dee February 25, 2020 6 Comments
Money + Work

Queered & Careered: 12 Ways to Cope at Work When You’re Just Not Feeling It

For those days when you wake up for work and a repeated round of “fuck this” is going through your head.

Tiara Dee February 11, 2020 9 Comments
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You Need Help: How Do I Come Out as Trans at Work?

Here are some tips to come out at work as safely as possible, and it requires a little bit of preparation in and out of the office.

Archie February 3, 2020 5 Comments
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Queered & Careered: In the Meantime (Or Things to Do While You’re Unemployed)

One of the most insidious effects of unemployment in a capitalist society is that we start to doubt our worth if we are not tied to a job. Our daily resilience IS productive and we deserve to celebrate ourselves, employed or not.

Tiara Dee January 28, 2020 5 Comments
Money + Work

Queered & Careered: 5 Networking Tips for the Awkward Queer

Are you an awk queer who cringes when you hear the word “networking”? This one is for you.

Tiara Dee January 14, 2020 5 Comments
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Queered & Careered: The Many Times Informational Interviews Have Saved Me

Sooo, what are you waiting for? Make a list of ten professionals who inspire you and reach out to them to connect today. We have the tools to uplift and provide protection for each other, and informational interviews are a great way to start that process.

Tiara Dee December 31, 2019 3 Comments
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Queered & Careered: 5 Ways You Can Use Tarot at Work

Just because, let’s be honest: your workplace could use some queer witchy energy.

Tiara Dee December 17, 2019 4 Comments
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Queered & Careered: How I Use Journaling to Resist at Work

Need a ride or die bestie at work who will listen, affirm you, and help you process that recent microaggression? Turn right to your journal!

Tiara Dee December 3, 2019 12 Comments
Money + Work

Queered & Careered: Sussing Out if An Employer is Trash

When you’re queer, every career decision can have consequences for your emotional, mental, or even physical health. Planning ahead, finding support, and asking critical questions about the people and companies you’re “dating” is central to your survival.

Tiara Dee November 19, 2019 9 Comments
Money + Work

Queered & Careered: Things to Bring and Leave Behind

Queered & Careered is a column that offers tips and tricks on how to navigate career development as a queer person — from job searching to career inspiration to dealing with straight nonsense in the office.

Tiara Dee November 5, 2019 30 Comments
Money + Work

You Need Help: Balancing Financial Security and Moral Bankruptcy

Doing something positive for the world is a constantly moving target.

himani October 28, 2019 8 Comments
Money + Work

Take Autostraddle’s Big Queer Money Survey So We Can All Prosper

Let’s talk about everybody’s favorite topic: money!!!

Riese March 4, 2019 38 Comments
Money + Work

Grindr-Backed LGBT Publication “INTO” Forced To Grind to a Halt

On Tuesday, Grindr-backed LGBT publication “Into” initiated, without warning, mass layoffs, effectively shuttering the site in … wait for it… A PIVOT TO VIDEO.

Rachel January 16, 2019 37 Comments
Health Money + Work

Do the Damn Thing, Part 3: Fail and Refocus

You’ve done it. You’ve crafted long term and short term goals, made an action plan, set reasonable expectations, nurtured the skills that empower you to focus — and now you’ve failed. Welcome to being a human on this earth!

Heather Hogan January 4, 2019 14 Comments
Money + Work

Do the Damn Thing, Part 2: Focus, Boundaries and Single-Tasking

You’ve crafted some longterm goals and set some realistic expectations. Now you’re ready to tackle the most important part of doing the thing: actually doing the thing.

Heather Hogan December 28, 2018 5 Comments
Money + Work

Do the Damn Thing, Part One: Setting Goals and Realistic Expectations

January is a time for resolutions, but I’m going to give you something better than that: A pre-New Year three-week lesson on figuring out what the heck you want to do and actually doing it.

Heather Hogan December 21, 2018 7 Comments
Money + Work

You Need Help: How to Be More Assertive (or, When to Clap Back at Men)

It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends.

Heather Hogan July 14, 2018 19 Comments
Money + Work

“Good Company” Is the Best Magazine a Queer Aspirant Could Ever Dream Of

“Good Company,” a new magazine from Design*Sponge’s Grace Bonney, is a radically diverse incredible new project you should support ALSO I JUST SO HAPPEN TO BE FEATURED IN ONE OF THE ARTICLES.

Riese May 7, 2018 6 Comments
LGBTQ+ Businesses Money + Work

LGBT Credit Union Superbia Wants to Help You Keep Our Gay Money in the Family

Explicitly for the queers and our allies, Superbia will not only function like a normal credit union would, but it will also pour 30% of its profits back into community organizations. And they’ll do this by making sure you aren’t refused service at your goddamn financial institution, a thing that still happens despite the fact that it is 2018.

A.E. Osworth April 16, 2018 12 Comments
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