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We Need QTBIPOC Land Healing Projects

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Playlist: Songs for Vibing with Your Found Family on Thanksgiving

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Short Fiction Playlist: Five Queer Short Stories To Read on Thanksgiving

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Holigay Gift Guide: For the Kitchen Top You Maybe Have a Crush On

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Pop Culture Fix: “Strange World” Features Disney’s Millionth First Gay Character

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No Filter: Keke Palmer’s Hair Hath Taken Me to a New Plane of Existence!

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Colorado Springs Club Q victims: Raymond Green, Derrick Rump, Ashley Paugh, Daniel Davis Aston and Kelly Loving
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These Are the Five Victims of the Club Q Shooting in Colorado Springs

Four victims of the shooting at an LGBTQ+ club in Colorado Springs have been named, including two Club Q bartenders, Derrick Rump and Daniel Davis Aston, as well as Kelly Loving, Raymond Green and Ashley Paugh, who had an 11-year-old daughter.

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Thanksgiving Will Always Be My Special Holiday — And Not Just Because It’s When I Proposed to My Partner

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Once again, a place that provides refuge to the LGBT community has been visited by violence and tragedy.

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