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Movie Features

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Movie Reviews

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The film is a dreamy yarn, a queer coming-of-age story illuminated by the soft, lulling LED of a computer screen.

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‘My Wife and I Haven’t Had Sex in Almost Two Years’

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Music

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Quizzes

Quiz: What Lesbian Furniture Are You?

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First Person

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Webcomics

Reine #70: Take Your Coat

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TV Show Recaps

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TV Show Recaps

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THERE’S SO MUCH TO DISCUSS BUT ALL I WANT TO TALK ABOUT IS THAT [REDACTED]!

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TV Show Recaps

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Politics + Activism

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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

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