Queer sex dreams, BDSM and the law, kinky headspace, sex positivity basics, five books to read about sex work and more.

Who messages first, taking all your activity partners out for brunch, what orgasms do to your brain, the key to better communication and more.

How to tell if someone’s flirting with you, talking about what you want, the most-searched-for term in porn (has to do with lesbian sex), establishing protocol and more.

Consensual non-consent, an electrosex checklist, tumblr is for porn, two things people in long-term relationships are good at, dating as a transfeminine girl and more.

Bad literary sex scenes, what romance means, sex ed and disability, how to have car sex and more.

Valentine’s Day spending, tactile pornography, a new smart vibrator, how degrading sex can be feminist degrading sex and more.

Queer feelings, being a rope bottom/being a translator, cheap dates that don’t feel cheap, multiple orgasms and more.

Porn alternatives, how to actually exercise your kegels, a lesbian adult coloring book, butts, pervertables, ways to describe orgasms and more.

How we talk about sex, how kink was declassified as a mental illness, physical therapy and your sex life and more.

The only good reason to move in together, vibrators are cool now, flirting with plausible deniability, a new way to learn about sexual pleasure and more.

In this NSFW Sunday: the New York Library’s extensive erotica collection, poly OkCupid updates, a vibrator that syncs with your smut and more.

How to put toys in your butt, a map of feminist sex shops, UK porn censorship, keeping your sex toys warm when it’s cold and more.

Sex toys are getting increasingly non-representational, sex workers’ rights, Dr. Seuss’s book of nudes, no one is sexting enough, and more.

A card deck illustrated with lesbian sex, putting all your crushes in a secret Facebook group, invisible labor at Kink.com, talking with your actual mouth and more.

Vagina art, lust as a top, systematic discrimination against the sex industry, Melissa Gira Grant on Stoya and more.

Being solo poly, pick-up strategies for queer sex, vulva emojis, when more sex does and doesn’t lead to more happiness (and an important caveat), and more

Sexual overtures from an alien, coming out like a porn star, changes to your Tinder profile, virtual reality porn and more.

The edible sex toy industry, when porn can be educational, what to do if you cheated, cute early ideas about what sex is, five girls you bring home in your twenties, a scene from classic lesbian erotica and more.

BDSM as therapy, hugging, queer hook ups in middle America, liking your activity partner’s friends and more.