Ode to My Pantry: Pan Pals

Learning to feed yourself can be one of the most terrifying things. Am I about to give myself food poisoning? If I eat this too often will I end up with scurvy? How can I get the most nutritional bang for my buck? Why does this still taste like ass?

With Ode to My Pantry, learn to navigate a grocery store without having a meltdown in aisle three. Give a man a fish and feed him for a day, teach a queer to cook and stave off malnutrition for another semester.


Let’s face it. Sometimes eating sucks. Not because you have to shop for groceries. Not because you have to prep. Not because you have to cook. Because you have to clean. (Fucking pans!) You earn accolades for cooking your person-of-interest a meal, but if you take advantage of the post-meal seduction and ignore the dishes, you’ll spend your next week up to your elbows in soap suds after you spend a few minutes up to your wrists.

You’d think some people would have learned that baked on, caked on messes don’t get easier with time, but apparently not. Not only does sloppy cleaning leave you with a few extra minutes (or hours) of chores, but it devolves into the slippery slope that is the Destructive Dinnerware Cycle. Unless you are a Cookware Whisperer, there’s a good chance you’ll burn something on your New Kitchen Thing since you haven’t acquainted yourself with your pan’s surface and surface properties. So when you burn something, you just try to scrape it off. And then the next time you bring it out, your food sticks even more and you’ll just scrape it even harder. So the cycle continues until you realize you might as well be frying your eggs on Velcro.

Yay feedback loops

Yay feedback loops

So how do you clean your pans without resorting to the garbage can and ordering a new one off of eBay? For one thing, prevent the damage by heating shit up. Pre-heating cookware doesn’t just get your food closer to done, but it’ll cause the metal to expand and the tiny surface pores to close. So your pan becomes a little bit slicker and lives up to its non-stick name. Oh, and oil. Oil always helps.

But let’s say pre-heating didn’t help and you’re still stuck with stuck food. Don’t punish your pan too badly otherwise it’ll become even more petulant! Every scrape with your fork, knife or steel wool damages the surface further, creating a shitton of scratches. This may just seem like a cosmetic thing, but those innocuous scuffs compromise the surface you paid good money for. Every newly formed crack just wants to make food friends and hug those friends to death. So your steak will stick, your bechamel will burn and your scramble will leave you eggsasperated. So how do you stay friends with your pan?

Not so shiny now is it?

Not so shiny now is it?

Water is the obvious answer, right? Most of the time* it’s the best approach to your scorched saucepan situation. It’s so helpful, you might even go so far as to call it the healthiest form of liquid. It’ll keep things pliable and generally prevent any kitchen calcification. If you’ve finished sautéing and there’s a bunch of crud that you don’t want to deglaze, pour some hot water into your pan and return it to the stovetop while you eat your meal. The residual heat and initial boil should dissolve some sugars and loosen up the gunk so you’re ready for your next step. Just be sure to avoid cold water since a drastic temperature change can lead to thermal shock and warped pans.
But if you give it a swipe with a sponge or scouring pad and your pan’s holding onto its food friends, reach for an old credit card, gym membership or wall decal squeegee. Steel wool, knives and forks may sound like great crud busting weapons, but they’ll just do some of that aforementioned gouging. In the case of Teflon-coated pans, it can cause the coating to flake off and lose its non-stick status and become a possible health risk. Push your card along the surface at an angle and you should be able to peel or scrape off any gunk. This works especially well for scrambled eggs and other substances that clog your sponges. Since the card is (presumably) softer than your pan, you don’t have to worry about damaging the surface.
Not just for hair anymore!

Not just for hair anymore!

If peeling also doesn’t work, you’re going to have to rely on brute strength. Baking soda is a gentle abrasive and one of those cheap magical ingredients (like vinegar) that help you in a shitton of situations. You can try adding some baking soda to your boil to loosen stuff up, but elbow grease is the real key. Shake some baking soda onto the crusty bits and let it hydrate a bit before you go to town. Use a scouring pad to break down the food. If it still isn’t working, shake on some more soda and let it rest and try again later that day (or week).
*A major exception to the Water Rule is cast iron. If you received a hand-me-down skillet or wok that’s been lovingly used for ages, you might notice that it doesn’t look particularly clean, but it still manages to cook things really wellThat patina on your grandma’s seasoned pan is a fat polymerization that coats the metal, causing it to become relatively inert and allowing you to flip your pancakes worry free. But if you compromise that coating (by washing it with water and soap) you’ll soon realize how protective that patina is when your Dutch Oven becomes a heaping pile of rust. So what the fuck do you do?
Now would be a good time to employ some salt (good ol’ table salt will do) since it’s both absorbant and abrasive. Shake on enough to absorb the grease and rub it around until it darkens into sand. Dump it out and repeat until your salt stays white. You can also add a bit of oil to your salt and save a step when it comes to re-seasoning your pan. You can use salt when it comes to your non-cast iron pan, but just keep it mind that it is harsher, so you might end up scratching your Lagostina. Keep this as your last resort.
Now go forth and bravely make your breakfast. Because if shit gets burnt, you can deal with it.
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  1. I’m a big fan of leaving things to soak in hot water, works most of the time. Otherwise, cleaning as soon as you’re done is a lot easier than waiting even until after you’ve eaten. Having said that, I’m never again moving to a place with no dishwasher, cuz not having one in my current apartment is driving me nuts.

  2. “your scramble will leave you eggsasperated”
    Kristen have I told you lately how I miss you so very much

  3. I cook pretty much everything in cast-irons skillets that belonged to my grandmother (and she may or may not have been the original owner, I have no idea). Major advantages to cast-iron:
    1) It’s naturally non-stick so long as it’s seasoned properly (basically, has a thin layer of cooking oil/shortening/lard/etc. cooked onto the interior). Non-stick coatings are toxic when they start to break down, so not only is it a pain to cook on a pan that’s losing it’s coating, it’s bad for you;
    2) It adds a little iron to your diet;
    3) It can hold up to SUPER high temperatures, so it’s oven-safe and virtually impossible to damage, which leads to number
    4) Food doesn’t stick to it very much to begin with as I mentioned before, so usually the only cleaning required is hot water and the scrubby side of a sponge;
    5) It’s green and saves money! In addition to not having a chemical coating, it doesn’t require any detergent to clean (in fact, soap damages the seasoning)and it lasts pretty much forever. Like I said, mine belonged to my grandmother, and probably her mother before her, and I’m positive they’ll last beyond my lifetime as well. Even if they sit on a shelf in your parents’ garage for 10 years and you have to scrub the dead spiders out of them before using them in your first apartment, they’re good as new (well, technically better since cast-iron improves with age) after a good scrubbing and re-seasoning.

    I’m gonna step down off the cast-iron soapbox for now, but yeah…it’s a majorly worthwhile investment. American Culinary/Wagnerware and Lodge Logic are both excellent brands that are very affordable (Lodge is typically easier to find IME).

  4. “Now go forth and bravely make your breakfast” I now feel like marching into my kitchen, fanfares blazing from the stereo, to flip some pancakes.

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