“I feel like she’s putting pressure on herself bc she’s more masc, but I’ve told her I’m not expecting anything and just want to have fun together whatever that looks…
I used to chase warmth in ways that weren’t always safe for me — staying too long, giving too much, confusing chaos for chemistry. These days, warmth means choosing softness…
“Hi, I’m coming to you live with what I naively thought was surely only a problem for heterosexuals previously: My mother-in-law-to-be is making me miserable in the leadup to my…
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