Being conscientious makes you better at lesbian sex or any sex; what commitment-phobia is actually about; and cuffing season is cancelled, sorry not sorry.
It is hard to feel so far from the people you care about. This shit is not easy. But! We choose these relationships anyway, for our varied reasons, and gosh darnit we are gonna have some sexy fun while we’re here!
A suggestion on how to best use DST; why you can’t be ghosted on an app; divorce cake; why breakups are good for you; and more.
The science on cuffing, bad patterns from astrological signs, moving on when something doesn’t work out, why you should use the word “vulva” when you’re talking about a vulva, and more.
How to make your queer sex life literally magic, even if it’s with your ex, who science says it’s fine to sleep with now.
What if we all dated but didn’t text constantly or at all? Plus: stop making sex about the orgasms, how to talk dirty during sex, finding queer asexual intimacy and more.
How to get into anal, how to winterize a vagina, why couples who post a lot on social media are probably doomed, why weird sex is good sex and more.
How to be good at sex. Plus what it’s like wearing latex, what it’s like being a unicorn, cuffing season by astrological sign, the feminist history of nudes in nature and more.
We’re back with more questions than ever! And our team is here to give you advice on things like: sexy underwear for masculine-of-center folks, breaking sexual tension with a friend, how to move on from your one true love, how to get out of a professional rut and more!
Why and how to set boundaries in any type of relationship. Plus, don’t date people who are ambivalent about you; how to take good nudes; how to know whether you’re ready to date again and more.
Protect partners’ alone time. Plus, why to ask a lot of questions during a hookup, what to do when you disassociate during sex, Daddy/little dynamics and more.
Running a sex-toy store, why people are into feet, the truth about jade eggs and more.
Don’t sleep with your ex. Plus the age at which self-esteem peaks, how to get comfortable with your junk, top sexual fantasies and more.
Doin’ it for the nude. Plus: the two lies people tell on dating apps, dating as a trans woman with HIV, how often paps need smearing and more.
How to be great at a threesome with a couple. Plus what if someone you’re dating is kinkier than you are, why sex ed should be about facts not feelings, what to do about frequent UTIs and more.
Orbiting is okay. Plus a first-time anal fisting, kitten play, why you shouldn’t invite partners to friend events and more.
Getting down when you have gender dysphoria, how sex positivity shouldn’t mean pressure to have sex, new research that says sex makes you feel like life has meaning and more.
Sleepovers suck but you can have a better one, if you must. Also: Ontario’s sex ed curriculum goes back in time, lesbians have better sex, why not to get jaded in your Tinder bio and more.
What to do with the instagram photos you have with your ex, what to do with the nudes you have of your ex, how to overcome anxiety for better queer sex and more.
The new rules of dating? Don’t be an asshole. Plus: How to explore bisexuality, how to talk about good sex so you can have it, what the Desiree Conference cancellation means for sex workers and more.