Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #12

Questions from the A+ Inbox were taking up such an enormous portion of the A+ Insider that we've decided to dedicate an entire post to answering them every month instead! We think this will be a ot of fun for everybody in the whole family. We have included as many as we can. We love you, your hair looks fantastic today!

WHERE'S MY QUESTION????
If your question isn't here, that's because:
1. It's going to be answered or was answered on the A+ podcast
2. It's a question that has already been asked and answered in previous editions of this column
3. It's a question we don't know the answer to / don't know how to answer
4. It's an advice question that we'll be publishing / have published in an advice-focused post for A+ readers
5. It's a question better answered via direct e-mail, which means we have emailed you about it, or will.

ALL-CONSUMING NEEDS TO SHARE
hi my girlfriend and i bought and used a strap-on last night (a first for both of us) and it was really fun a...

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This is one of the 3-4 posts we publish each month just for A+ members. Why? Well, because...

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