Results for: be the change
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A+ Roundtable: Coping with Climate Change
“Corrupt politicians and leaders want to destroy our spirit. We can’t let them.”
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Into the A+ Box #32: What If You Choose Not To Have Kids Because of Climate Change?
The team offers advice to A+ members who asked whether a relationship can make it if you don’t feel you’re sexually compatible, what to do when falling hard for a queer coworker, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #59: You Love Her But There’s No Passion
What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!
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I’m In My Thirties and Can’t Make Up My Mind About Having Kids
I’ve been thinking about it almost every day lately.
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I Think My Hot Girlfriend Is Gonna Leave Me For Someone Hotter
Advice for coping when your Instagram-beloved girlfriend seems too hot for you, rekindling romance after long Covid, and how to flirt — gayly.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #92: Healthy Relationships and Boundaries
How to stand up to straight people wedding expectations, deal with disappointment around a potential sperm donor, decide whether or not to cut off given family, know whether you should ask your ex-boss out, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #90: Queer Sex and Desire with Sex Educator Luna Matatas
“So many people struggle with getting out of their head and into their body during sex.”
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My Bisexual Girlfriend Only Likes Strap-On Sex, Should I Be Worried?
Do your girlfriend’s preferences mean she prefers sex with cis men, plus advice on coping with stress without drinking and nonbinary names for wedding party members!
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The Flood Came Later
“I’ve always loved the water. Before top surgery, when my discomfort with my body was at an all time high, swimming was the one thing I could do that gave me a sense of freedom. It felt safe to connect to my body in an environment where I could be weightless and enjoy moving with ease. I could be held by something when I was too self conscious to be touched by other people. I learned to swim in the pool at a hotel gym near the house I grew up in. My father taught me…”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #80: GENDER FEELINGS
We have 26 whole questions on all things gender! From parenting to transition to clothing to inclusion and exclusion in queer spaces, and more!
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Interview With My Ex-Girlfriend: El
“I also had a really weird relationship with sex until very recently because, I don’t know. A lot of shame is placed on it. Also especially being a girl who likes girls in the South, no one tells you anything.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #43: How Do You Reconnect With a Friend After Over a Year?
The Autostraddle team offers A+ members advice on topics from changing your name, to working as one of the only out queer teachers at a middle school, feeling pulled between different causes, maybe finally taking a break from a draining friendship, feeling like you don’t fit into queer community, and so much more!
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us: #48
“I want you to know that three different people in my life sent me this video the day it dropped. I have not been the same since.”
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Did My Partner Trick Me Into a Lifetime of Sexless Monogamy?
In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a partner and getting into being handy!
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Help! I’ve Gotten ‘The Ick’ for My Girlfriend
Advice for suddenly feeling unattracted to your girlfriend, having your first ever crush on a cis dude, and finding a sex therapist.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #93: How Can You Tell If She Has A Crush On You?
How do you build chosen family? Should you consider pursuing romantic connection when your friends have become more distant? And do we have ideas for your anniversary celebration? (We do!)
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Interview With My Wife: Mia
“I know, now the thought of sleeping in is just as exciting as a full blown affair to me.”
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Help! My Friends Won’t Shut Up
Plus advice about leaving a controlling partner and getting second dates.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #81: So You Want to Act on Your Celebrity Crush
Advice for breakups, libido gaps, waffling on HRT, dealing with BV and more!
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A+ Roundtable: What We Love and Hate About Where We Live
You can’t choose where you spawn on this planet, and you can’t always necessarily choose where you wind up living.