It’s a boy, until and unless he tells us otherwise, I thought. It’s a boy who will be raised without gender roles. It’s a boy who will be defined by their heart and mind, not by the organs that happen to be between their legs. It’s a boy who will be loved wholly, deeply, and completely by the two women who created him.
Fitness giant CrossFit is being sued by personal trainer and trans woman Chloie Jonsson after she was told that if she wanted to compete in the CrossFit Games, she would have to compete against men. CrossFit has resorted to using terrible science to defend themselves.
Google hates Bustle but loves Janet Mock (and every woman, I think), the Dalai Lama thinks gay marriage is pretty alright, and yet another androgynous model is taking our hearts by storm.
This week on NSFW Sunday: a kinky feminist film fest, the Feminist Porn Awards nominees, instant orgasms, sex work as work and more.
There is no better time to talk about potato products than right now.
4. You were so much prettier with long hair.
I just came back from my native island where I took a much needed mini vacation — without further ado, welcome to Wilder Hungers tropical edition!
“I once had a life where I could go blocks, miles, months without a stranger standing in my way, saying, ‘Hey girl, where you goin’ in such a hurry?’ I want to take my personal space bubble to the shop and have it re-inflated to its original size, but that chapter of my life seems to be done.”
If you want to learn from the biggest brain living at the intersections of pizza and feminism, know this: she works here. Duh.
Oh hey, the Bisexual Resource Center wants to talk to you about issues affecting the bisexual community and how you can get involved.
I can’t say any of us were thrilled to sign up, but we knew what we had to do: we had to sign up for a dating app and prepare to meet a lot of ladies… for science.
According to this unpublished blog post I found in 2014. Still applicable though.
“After three hours of waiting, the director sits us on the couch amongst three or four other couples. We stare deeply into the camera. I hype myself up. Look into the camera like it is a lover, NO, a hamburger! Look at the camera like it is a hamburger.”
“Then it came. It was the size of a small house. I could fit a Ford Focus inside of that.”
While I started getting some hints that I was trans at an early age, my roots didn’t really take hold until I was older. Here are some of the stops along the way.
An enthralling live feed of porn search terms, anal sex positions, facts about queer relationships for non-queers and more.
Who ya gonna call, besides the kittens that is.
It’s not up to just anyone. It’s up to sex workers to define their own destiny.
“It’s like a magic confidence talisman, that blindfold is.”
“Go to your pantry and determine which shelf or space in the pantry is the dullest or darkest, ideally both. Remove everything from that space one item at a time. Put the cake mix in the farthest place back in that space.”