“I’d like to see if porn does anything for me, would you have any (ethical, lesbian) recommendations for the first try of a young adult with an eye for the femmier?”

Also, we’re breaking our own no-bare-breasts rule for this post (b/c honestly blurring out nipples felt stupid), so when we say NSFW, we really, really, really mean it.

“Help! I just got a strap-on and it turns out I’m not so skilled at using it (yet). How do I learn?”

This week on Bomb Girls, the sunshine is gone and nothing will ever be okay again.

Batwoman’s lesbian wedding, queer fiction for Black History Month, Jeanette Winterson on Virginia Woolf and confessions from an analogue-obsessed book sniffer, book cakes and so much more!

Frank Ocean, studs and Big Tobacco all sit down to watch JLo’s new lesbian show on TV. What happens next?

There’s a lot going on at The Dalloway this week so Team Autostraddle NYC decided to finally tell you what we think about the fancy lesbian hotspot. Spoiler alert: We’re digging the new girl in town.

London can be brutal when the rent is due, but also incredibly exciting, creative, glittery and beautiful any day of the week.

Just in time for this week’s episode of Glee, I finally recap last week’s episode of Glee!

Handmade Valentine’s Day Cards to replace anything you were thinking of buying from a grocery store.

In which Paige and Emily virtually U-Haul and Aria considered a longterm sub-dom BDSM relationship.

The 2013 Trans 100 is a BIG DEAL and we wanted to give you a closer look at the amazing trans* women featured on the list, thus this epic compilation of inspirational people relevant to your interests.

The European Parliament is set to vote March 12th on a proposal that seeks to ban all forms of “pornography” from “the media” without really specifying to which pornography or media they’re referring.

Last year the NMA nominated zero ladies in its prime categories but this year we snagged half the noms! Why? Plus, I’ve got an epic rundown on everything you need to know about every ladyjourno finalist.

Las Vegas: the new gay and lesbian utopia of America.

“Though it’s got its share of pros and cons, the memories you make in this gorgeous city will stick with you forever.”

There is a certain level of ostracism that happens when you realize you are different from most of your peers, and not that that can’t be played at by straight actors, it just feels even more gratifying when the actors of the characters you fall in love with have or are looking for female partners.

“There was so much fucking estrogen and so many ladies who fist other ladies in that building, my ovaries tried to reproduce asexually.”

This week on Glee, Quinn discovered how nice it is to slow-dance with Santana.

For anyone who’s ever wanted to say it in a letter.