Getting out there after separating from your cishet husband, mixing masculine and feminine style, asking people at the bar to kiss you on your birthday, and more!

Queer parenting insists that parenting is a verb, an action and identity available to any and all adults who take on a shared responsibility.

If a date doesn’t suggest a meetup, does that mean they’re not interested? Should you break up over differences in how you relate to sex and desire? What’re tips for coping with treatment resistant ADHD? And more!

Plus updates on Survivor, The Sex Lives of College Girls, and Home Economics.

Feeling bad because of TikTok, boundary setting during sex, what your porn preferences mean, and more!

“Well, if the ceiling collapses, at least it won’t fall on us because this section of ceiling is already missing.”

Meryl Wilsner’s new book has really really hot strap-on sex in it! Plus, more very important LGBTQ+ book news.

Well I guess Malika has decided she’s going to be a chaotic bisexual right out of the gate!

Dani Janae talks to Tribeca Film Festival programmers, Lucy Mukerjee and Shakira Refos, on the importance of investing in queer artists and audiences.

This residual harm, this chip on the shoulder, this something to prove — they’re proving it to the wrong person. They’re gay-tekeeping.

“I know, now the thought of sleeping in is just as exciting as a full blown affair to me.”

“The playlist that was basically titled: ‘I know I said I’m not into a relationship, but I love you.'”

Plus updates on Fantasy Island, Good Trouble, The Power, A Million Little Things, All American, and the Niecy Nash and Jessica Betts Wife Show!

Are you considering NaNoWriMo? Plus, a library from Solange, how literary gatekeepers can elevate Black trans women writers, queer webcomics and more.

“No one can put up a tent by themselves or if you do, please let me know. Put a YouTube tutorial up.”

“There’re contingencies of queer freaks everywhere, sometimes it just takes a little more effort.”

In which we talk for a weirdly long time about who does laundry but also Yellowjackets, why a punk cover of “Mambo Italiano” is “our song,” and our sex drives.

It was at this point in the series where I decided it should be renamed Gays Having Intense Conversations Under Fuzzy Blankets.

In which our team answers our members’ questions about their hair!

“Well, we first bonded over Naomily.”