The similarity between Shibari and classical ballet, how sharing media or friends can strengthen relationships, how celery and the occult made you gay, what gets you a better response in online dating and more.

The possibility of finding our kink community gave me the courage to take another deep breath and open the door.

The single best way to get better at sex. Also Pokémon Go as dating app, when you have to pee during sex, how queer sex can teach you body love and more.

Falling in love (or falling out), opening up your relationship, getting back to what matters, exploring new desires..tarot cards love to talk about what’s happening in our relationships. Here are a few ideas for interpreting the cards in your love readings.

The most popular emoji on Tinder, when your partnership gets boring, why it’s still hard to talk about what you want and more.

Like the Halloween candy that is already proudly on the shelves in CVS, I’m here to motivate you to get into the ~Fall Spirit~ wildly before it’s necessary with some Pumpkin Spice Horoscopes.

2016 was the best of times and the worst of times. JK, it was the absolute worst of times. A lot of queer women died on TV. But a lot of them kissed and made googly eyes at each other too.

Crystal healing for your crotch, coming out as poly (and a petition for a more inclusive relationship status on Facebook), Rule 34 in the tube site world, and more.

Sometimes the girl you have a crush on has an open girl/boy/boifriend and you’ve never even thought about non-monogamy before. Here’s how to start.

Here are some things to look out for when you are a bisexual polyamorous woman looking to start a relationship with an established couple.

How to tell if someone’s flirting with you, talking about what you want, the most-searched-for term in porn (has to do with lesbian sex), establishing protocol and more.

I hope y’all out there are ready for a change — this is an eventful month! With some fiery Aries energy and a few aspects to Uranus this month (planet of revolution, upheaval, and queerness), you’ll have a few chances to let go of whatever’s been holding you back, and start fresh.

Can you help me understand why I identify so strongly with 80s music videos?

How we talk about sex, how kink was declassified as a mental illness, physical therapy and your sex life and more.

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How to squirt, how to sext like it’s 1615, the Magic Wand throughout art history and so much more!

You can be poly and married and want to date, but no one will know what your deal is until you tell them, so tell them up front.

Everything you ever wanted to know about the sex lives of the monogamous, non-monogamous, and those preferring various sub-styles of relationship. SO MANY THINGS. IT’S ALL HERE.

In honor of our seventh birthday, we’re talking about the writing we’re proud of, the writing that scared us, the writing we regret, the writing coming up soon and so many other fascinating things!

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