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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Is in Your Sex Dreams

Why it’s okay to feel lonely even if you have a partner, why it’s a great idea to slide into her insta DMs, what sex dreams might mean and more.

Ryan Yates November 25, 2018
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Into Pubic Hair

This week, the internet got obsessed with pubic hair. Also: how to be more dominant in bed, sexts to send when you’re out of ideas, the hot new trend of later-in-life lesbianism and more.

Ryan Yates November 18, 2018 5 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Up Too Late

Being conscientious makes you better at lesbian sex or any sex; what commitment-phobia is actually about; and cuffing season is cancelled, sorry not sorry.

Ryan Yates November 11, 2018 3 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Using Today’s Extra Hour for Lesbian Sex

A suggestion on how to best use DST; why you can’t be ghosted on an app; divorce cake; why breakups are good for you; and more.

Ryan Yates November 4, 2018 22 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Calling a Vulva a Vulva

The science on cuffing, bad patterns from astrological signs, moving on when something doesn’t work out, why you should use the word “vulva” when you’re talking about a vulva, and more.

Ryan Yates October 28, 2018 4 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Practicing Queer Sex Witchcraft

How to make your queer sex life literally magic, even if it’s with your ex, who science says it’s fine to sleep with now.

Ryan Yates October 21, 2018 1 Comment
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Over Texting

What if we all dated but didn’t text constantly or at all? Plus: stop making sex about the orgasms, how to talk dirty during sex, finding queer asexual intimacy and more.

Ryan Yates October 14, 2018 2 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Keeping Sex Weird

How to get into anal, how to winterize a vagina, why couples who post a lot on social media are probably doomed, why weird sex is good sex and more.

Ryan Yates October 7, 2018 5 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Dominatrix Vampire Bitch

How to be good at sex. Plus what it’s like wearing latex, what it’s like being a unicorn, cuffing season by astrological sign, the feminist history of nudes in nature and more.

Ryan Yates September 30, 2018 8 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Getting Good At Boundaries

Why and how to set boundaries in any type of relationship. Plus, don’t date people who are ambivalent about you; how to take good nudes; how to know whether you’re ready to date again and more.

Ryan Yates September 23, 2018 9 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Stands Guard Over Solitude

Protect partners’ alone time. Plus, why to ask a lot of questions during a hookup, what to do when you disassociate during sex, Daddy/little dynamics and more.

Ryan Yates September 16, 2018 5 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Using Their Jade Egg for Display Only

Running a sex-toy store, why people are into feet, the truth about jade eggs and more.

Ryan Yates September 9, 2018 3 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Quantifying Desire

Don’t sleep with your ex. Plus the age at which self-esteem peaks, how to get comfortable with your junk, top sexual fantasies and more.

Ryan Yates September 2, 2018 2 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Naked on the Roof

Doin’ it for the nude. Plus: the two lies people tell on dating apps, dating as a trans woman with HIV, how often paps need smearing and more.

Ryan Yates August 26, 2018 2 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows How To Be A Great Third

How to be great at a threesome with a couple. Plus what if someone you’re dating is kinkier than you are, why sex ed should be about facts not feelings, what to do about frequent UTIs and more.

Ryan Yates August 19, 2018 2 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is In Orbit

Orbiting is okay. Plus a first-time anal fisting, kitten play, why you shouldn’t invite partners to friend events and more.

Ryan Yates August 12, 2018 5 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Getting Down With Dysphoria

Getting down when you have gender dysphoria, how sex positivity shouldn’t mean pressure to have sex, new research that says sex makes you feel like life has meaning and more.

Ryan Yates August 5, 2018 2 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Edging

The best way to fight with your partner, what an orgasm feels like, making physical and literal space when you live with someone and more.

Ryan Yates July 29, 2018 2 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lebosexy Sunday Is Not Into Water Sex

Why water sex is bad, why sex research is weird, why “the bottom’s in charge” undermines ideas of consent and more.

Ryan Yates July 22, 2018 7 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Doesn’t Like Sleepovers

Sleepovers suck but you can have a better one, if you must. Also: Ontario’s sex ed curriculum goes back in time, lesbians have better sex, why not to get jaded in your Tinder bio and more.

Ryan Yates July 15, 2018 13 Comments
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