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Friendship

Finding Friendship Between Past and Present

She is living her best life. I am living mine. It is as though we released each other.

Oliver Reeson August 21, 2019 9 Comments
TV Reviews

“Bachelor in Paradise” Pays Off its Queer Relationship Promise in a Major Way

If breaking the so-called “rules” of Paradise means we get to watch Kristian and Demi profess their love for each other and make out by a pool during primetime, on one of the longest-running reality shows in the US, then I’m fucking here for it.

meg August 21, 2019 6 Comments
Issues

Militantly Optimistic on the 5

A road trip with my introverted wife and extroverted baby through the reddest part of California made me question my relationship with strangers (and my obsession with Rick Steves).

Kelsey McConnell August 21, 2019 12 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Even Kehlani Is Obsessed with Are You The One?

Also, Lena Waithe honors her TV mom and Brittani Nichols, Stephanie Beatriz and Carrie Brownstein are all honoring their dogs.

Stef August 21, 2019 7 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Kristen Stewart Still Looks Gay as Heck in This New Terrifying Ocean Monster Movie

A new show for Wanda Sykes, Lana Wachowski is making another Matrix, HBO orders a Practical Magic prequel, Kate McKinnon hanging out with RBG, and more!

Heather Hogan August 21, 2019 11 Comments
Geekery

Is It Just Me Or Is Vader Barbie a Femme Top Icon

I’m someone whose Star Wars obsession was peaking around about the same time I discovered I was into girls, so these two things are deeply connected for me. But I still never thought I’d be proclaiming any incarnation of Vader a queer lady icon. And yet.

Siobhan August 20, 2019 23 Comments
Issues

Who Do You Meet On the Greyhound?

A teen dyke wanders around the country in the early 2000’s, armed with an Ameripass and a journal.

Ocean Capewell August 20, 2019 13 Comments
TV Reviews

“GLOW” Season 3 Is Great and Very Gay, But I Have Some Questions

Arthie’s huge transitional moment is her new relationship with Yolanda, in full swing at the top of the season. Which means, yes, *announcer voice* SEASON THREE OF GLOW HAS LESBIAN SEX!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 20, 2019 25 Comments
Book Lists

30 New Books of Queer and Feminist Interest to Get Excited About This Fall

Whether your thing is queer girl YA inspired by Greek mythology, groundbreaking poetry collections, challenging and mind-expanding critical nonfiction on art, power, illness or design, or weird and dynamic short fiction, this fall brings you some new titles you won’t be able to stop thinking about. 

Rachel August 20, 2019 14 Comments
Issues

Like a House on Fire

Everything looks better when you’re in love, and Nevada City was no exception.

Betsy August 19, 2019 10 Comments
Movie Reviews

Thirsty Classics: “Persona” Is Best Watched as a Closeted Trans Teen

This is not a lesbian film. It is merely a film starring two women bursting with sexuality. And when I was 14 it was my favorite film of all time.

Drew Burnett Gregory August 19, 2019 14 Comments
TV Reviews

Dear White People Season 3 Finally Gives Us the Nerdy Black Gay Girls We Deserve

“Squeee!!! Little black nerdy girls in baby gay love!! IT’S SO CUTE!!”

Carmen Phillips August 19, 2019 4 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

SPOTTED: Kristen Stewart Canoodling With New Love Interest Person Dylan Meyer

SHE STILL ISN’T DATING ROBERT PATTINSON.

Stef August 19, 2019 13 Comments
Podcasts The L Word

“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 204: Lynch Pin with Drew Gregory

Autostraddle’s own Drew Gregory special guests on this hilarious episode of “To L and Back” in which we meet Helena for the first time, Jenny and Shane hunt for a new roommate, Bette looks great in New York City and makes one girl in a tank top VERY happy.

Riese August 19, 2019 4 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit Is Joining a Silent Bookclub

Silently reading en masse, language and citizenship, writers remembering Toni Morrison and more.

Ryan Yates August 18, 2019 3 Comments
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Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Wants Hayley Kiyoko to Be Our Girlfriend

Lesbian film power couples, Hayley Kiyoko on lesbianism, Little Women, Maisel Day, She-Ra and more! Happy Sunday queer babes!

Ari August 18, 2019 11 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Totally F*cking Natural

Why D/s is not abuse, astrological compatibility is a scam, it’s hard to find casual queer sex in rural places and more.

Ryan Yates August 18, 2019 7 Comments
Webcomics

Baopu #63: The Phantom Judgement

Time to examine the habit of self-judgement and move on.

Yao Xiao August 17, 2019 11 Comments
Recipes

Femme Brûlée: Honey Plum Cake

I can’t think of a seasonal summer fruit that would star better in a caramelized honey flavored cake than sweet-tart plums that soften in the oven and become deep, silky, jammy wells of flavor.

Reneice Charles August 17, 2019 8 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: “Why Women Kill” Is The Bisexual Polyamorous Misandrist Dark Comedy of Your Dreams

Plus updates on Beverly Hills 90210, Claws, Bachelor in Paradise, and Ambitions!

The TV Team August 16, 2019 14 Comments
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