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“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 410: “Little Boy Blue”

Let’s go have sex at the horse races!

Riese June 15, 2020 6 Comments
Politics + Activism

Queens Center for Gay Seniors Creates Phone Check-In Project, Connecting LGBTQ Elders and Youths During the Pandemic and Beyond

This incredible showing of support and care across generations makes us hopeful for what the future of the New York queer community will look like moving forward.

Abbie LeWarn June 15, 2020 6 Comments
Culture

Juniper Moon Folk Arts: Crafters, Activists, and the Glories of Gas Station Food

During Pride month, rural queer owned Juniper Moon Folk Art is doing weekly giveaways to raise funds for black-led organizations and bail funds working in antiracism and prison abolition.

Lauren Parker June 14, 2020 1 Comment
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Says F*CK Them Cops, I’ll Hang With Lena Waithe and Jonica Gibbs Instead

Here’s some good news: me and all my friends hate the cops! Also, a FREE Be Steadwell concert, Hawa Hassan is making lamb burgers, and Utah is celebrating women’s suffrage. Happy Sunday!

Ari June 14, 2020 1 Comment
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Pandemic Gloryhole

Protecting your sexual health as lockdown lifts, advice on sharing a very small space for a very long time and more.

Ryan Yates June 14, 2020 1 Comment
Webcomics

Reine #9: Take Care of Each Other

From a distance, or side by side in the streets, we take care of each other.

Ren Strapp June 13, 2020 11 Comments
Politics + Activism

Extra, Extra!: Police Violence Continues; the Argument About What “Defund Police” Means Begins

Overwhelmed by the news? So are we, but here’s our effort at highlighting some important stories and discussions. This week’s Extra! Extra! continues to look at police brutality, the protests and what’s been accomplished in their wake, as well as a brief update on the pandemic.

the team June 12, 2020 4 Comments
TV Reviews

“Homecoming” Is a Homo-Coming, but It’s Not the Star Vehicle Janelle Monáe Deserved

I wanted “Homecoming” to be Janelle Monáe’s star vehicle and for her search to be as compelling as Julia Roberts’ during the first season, but sadly — it simply wasn’t.

Natalie June 12, 2020 5 Comments
Straddleverse

Friday Open Thread: What’s Motivating You and Getting You Through?

This is your Friday open thread for June 12!

Vanessa June 12, 2020 31 Comments
Visual Art

One American Goes to See “30 Americans”

“And I thought how interesting is it that America can be this dark star, death star, and also at the same time this incredible shining light.”

Aisha June 12, 2020 22 Comments
Playlists

Stonewall Was an Uprising: A Playlist for Finding the Joy in the Struggle

For Black queer and trans people, insisting on cultivating joy might be the most radical move of all.

Abbie Jones June 12, 2020 2 Comments
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My Top 10 Favorite Lesbian Movies: Carmen, President of the Dee Rees and Queen Latifah Fan Club

Hello! I’m here to swoon over Dee Rees, in my opinion the greatest queer filmmaker of our time. Alright. Let’s get started!

Carmen Phillips June 11, 2020 15 Comments
First Person

Yelling His Name: Black Trans Mourning and the Murder of Tony McDade

Friends and family lovingly called him Tony the Tiger and recalled that he was big hearted. Tony is not the perfect victim — no Black person is in this nation’s eyes. So again and again I add #BlackTransLivesMatter to every post and plea I make.

Lazarus June 11, 2020 6 Comments
Friendship Politics + Activism

How to Talk to Your White Friends and Family About Racism

As annoying as it is, probably, to hear it, you really have to lead with love. It’s not our responsibility to love people who hate us or wish us ill, but if those people are your friends or family, it is yours. If you genuinely care about your family and want them to be and do better, let that ground your conversation.

Abbie Jones June 11, 2020 38 Comments
Politics + Activism

Showing Up For Black People Is a Duty, Not a Transaction

Real commitment to Black lives requires us to consider why we’re fighting and for whom. It’s time we ask ourselves: if our liberation weren’t intertwined, if your well-being weren’t tied to that of Black people, would you still defend Black life?

xoai pham June 11, 2020 5 Comments
TV Reviews

As a Queer South Asian, “Never Have I Ever” Been So Let Down

The reason I didn’t like “Never Have I Ever” wasn’t because I didn’t feel seen. It’s because Mindy Kaling and I are clearly looking at the same world, but Kaling is expecting me to overlook all of its pain.

himani June 10, 2020 50 Comments
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Lambda Literary Pride 2020 Brings Your Fave All-Star LGBTQ Authors to Your Living Room

See authors like Kristen Arnett, Nicole Byers, T Kira Madden, Chani Nicholas and Sam Irby LIVE and simultaneously contribute to an LGBT cultural institution!

Rachel June 10, 2020
Parenting & Family Politics + Activism

Raising Anti-Racist Kids: A Guide and Book List for White and Non-Black POC Parents

Protecting our children from hard conversations about race is actively aiding and abetting white supremacy. We can’t afford to stay complicit.

KaeLyn June 10, 2020 21 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Horoscopes for June 2020: How Can You Answer to Both Grief and Joy?

June brings us restlessness, urgency, and no easy answers. Let the eclipses break you open so you can be more whole.

Corina Dross June 10, 2020 4 Comments
Webcomics

Foolish Child #73: All Houses Matter

You’re not worth my energy nor the years being shaved off my life from the stress of having to defend My Humanity.

Dickens June 10, 2020 8 Comments
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