Results for: be the change
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Thank You, Ex: For (1) Set of Ghost Hands
I don’t like to think about the endings, which is probably why I’m always haunted, always clinging to things that return even when I should pretend I do not see them.
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10 Hot Things You Can Do to Boobs, Chests, and Nipples
It’s spring! Tits the season for appreciating boobs, chests, and nipples — so let’s do some chestploration and nipple stimulation!
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Remembering Deborah Sundahl, Lesbian Porn Pioneer
Two months ago, we lost Deborah Sundahl — a fierce, compassionate, and prolific queer elder.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Melt Your Brain
In this week’s NSFW Sunday: pubic hair, how sex toys are created, a new NSFW queer comic and more.
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Looking Back at the Queer Episodes of “Say Yes to the Dress”
My understanding of my queerness has evolved significantly since the first lesbian brides appeared on Say Yes to the Dress.
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How To Make Sexual Consent Sexy
Many people (myself included) love clear and direct communication. But not all of us lean into that style of sex. Thankfully, we can fold check-ins into sex without separating people from what they find fun.
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The Times I Stayed in the Closet While Wedding Planning
Planning a queer wedding isn’t without its complications, especially when you live in a place trying to push LGBTQ folks out of public life.
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You Need Help: How Do I Ask My Girlfriend To Freshen Up Before Sex Without Killing Our Sex Life?
Your girlfriend is putting a lot of trust in you, and that trust should be honored and celebrated.
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You Need Help: How Do I Get Back Into Dating at Age 54?
As a culture, we spend a lot of time talking about all of the ways that dating can suck; it becomes easy to forget how fun it can actually be!
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You Need Help: My Best Friend Broke Up With Me
How can I grieve this and move on? I assumed it would just happen with time but a lot of time has passed and I’m still stuck.
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I’ve Been Non-Monogamous for Eight Years — These Are My Mistakes and Lessons for Happier Loving
My experience of love has been marked by learning, mistakes, and lost relationships.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Coming Early
This week on NSFW Sunday: films about sex, articles about sex, lube, orgasms, and a Lip Service sex scene.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Sending You Signals
This week on NSFW Sunday: erotic hand signalling, outdated traditions, sexy indie rock girls, and the “Trans Women Safer Sex Guide.”
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Going Down in History
This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: historical gayness, porn, and non-monogamy.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking About Pandemic Dating
How has the pandemic changed dating and relationships, especially poly ones? What’s it called when you’re not getting enough alone time? And how do you find sex toys that feel a little more… advanced?
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So, Why Did You Break off Your Engaygement?
“My ex fiancé slept with her best friend (who was going to be the best man at our wedding).” 39 queer people on why they broke off their engagement.
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I Spent All of Quarantine Craving a Crush – Post-Vaccination, I’ll Have to Discover What I Really Want
Am I excited for the backdrops of my stories to vary? To have more sex? To meet people in real life? To fuck a couple and leave? To fly to a new place and stay? Of course. But do I think my emotional behavior is going to be changed by my second vaccine? Unlikely.
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You Need Help: Am I Invisible to Other LGBTQIA People?
There isn’t a secret formula for attracting others, but confidence does go a long way.
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I’m Not a Cat Lesbian but I Fell in Love With One
I never wanted to live with a cat. Of course, the universe had other plans.
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NSFW Sunday Wants to Taste the Rainbow in Your Pants
This week on NSFW Sunday: couples with roommates, feminist porn, bike smut, and tasting the rainbow in your pants.