So You Want to Try Relational Therapy
The most important aspect of therapy is the relationship that is built between you and your therapist.
“I Care A Lot” Review: Rosamund Pike Plays a Gay Grifter in This Relentlessly Cruel Thriller
If you don’t like to watch movies about horrible people doing horrible things, you’ll probably want to skip J Blakeson’s I Care A Lot. If you, like me, are a zealous fan of the small but growing canon of lesbian heist movies, you might have fun with this cynical, clinical movie steeped in the horrors of capitalism and greed.
If Your Dream Only Includes You, It’s Too Small
Heather Hogan noticed that I had taken up permanent residence in the comments of “Boobs on Your Tube” every Friday, basically writing recaps of my own (I felt lost, Autostraddle was my port in the storm). Heather asked if I had ever considered writing about television as a career. She said, “We can pay you. Not as much as we’d like to, but we’ll find the money. Is that something you’d be into?”
I wrote back, “That is something that I would VERY MUCH be into! In fact, I hope it’s not too unprofessional to say that I would love it with all of my heart.”
“Trans in Trumpland” Depicts the Past, Present and Future of Trans Lives
Four trans individuals are featured in the new docu-series exploring the impact of Trump’s ideologies.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows What Kink Is
What “kink” means, lies about kissing, vaccinating sex workers, how transparent dating app policies are (not very) and more.
“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1308 Recap: Rosé’s Turn
I know Snatch Game is the episode most Drag Race fans look forward to, but I’m a gay musical theatre nerd and nothing brings me more joy than the Rusical.
Reine #18: What House Plant Are You?
Tag yourself.
Boobs on Your Tube: Coop’s Faced With the Full Responsibility of Her Past on “All American”
Plus updates on Nancy Drew and Legacies!
TRANSCRIPT: Making the Queer Media You Want to See in the World
We live in a time when you can see yourself reflected in all kinds of media, from all kinds of corporations, who never liked to talk about us before. But when you click on those things, you are giving people money who are not part of our community.
Things I Read That I Love #316: Beach-Ball Buttocks Mimicking The Most Famous Bottom In The World
Topics include a Hollywood con artist, lip-reading, the benefit of nervous breakdowns, ultra-fast fashion, Mrs. Meyer’s soap, writing lesbian sex, Gamestop, Mormon Mommie Bloggers, butt lifts and more!
The Comment Awards Are Gay And Also Maybe Play Gay On TV
“Alex Mack has not one but TWO lesbian names.”
Into the A+ Advice Box #29: Feeling Inexperienced While Dating in Your 40’s, and More!
What to do when your girlfriend keeps talking about breaking up, considering whether to prepare for a life alone, how to move a conversation off of a dating app, discussing bras with your tween daughter, and more!
Also.Also.Also: Happy Birthday Audre Lorde and Toni Morrison
The queer art for divorce, advice on cohabiting with your girlfriend for the first time (should you split the rent?), the librarian war against QAnon, Carmen Maria Machado on Phoebe Bridgers, and more going into your weekend!
Gender Fluidity and the Black Atlantic
I always wonder what words my ancestors had for someone like me. In embracing my genderfluid identity, I’ve found great comfort in the deep and wide of the Atlantic — the way the water connects me to kin, named or unknown.
“Riverdale” Episode 505 Recap: Toni Topaz, at Last, Is a Main Player
These characters sure do love to self-sabotage!
“Good Trouble” Episode 301 Recap: Capoeira
Good Trouble has never been a show about escapism, and its season three opener, set in a Covid-free world, feels like a missed opportunity.
Don’t Look Down: It’s Like Wile E. Coyote Running Off a Cliff
Not to be one of those divorced people who makes everything about their divorce!, but getting divorced will really teach you that nothing about making something “real” or deciding you’re all in makes it any more secure.
Queer Tarotscopes for Pisces Season 2021: What Have You Been Suppressing; Where Can You Explore?
Aquarius encouraged us to break free of broken systems and start fresh, and Pisces takes that open space and thrives within it, dancing and screaming and being our strangest, most wonderful selves. What magic do we wield? What happens when we leave old limits behind and stop following the beaten path? How does showing respect for our own dreams help us find new ways to love ourselves?
Six Black Queer Travelers Share How They Attempt to Locate Community Around the Globe
As a Black queer traveler, there are a whole host of reasons why finding other Black queer communities can be difficult. Black Queer Travel Guide spoke to six Black queer people about their experiences of trying to find Black queer family wherever they go.
Pop Culture Fix: Demi Lovato Opens Up About Having 3 Strokes and a Heart Attack in “Dancing With the Devil” Trailer
Viola Davis and Stacey Abrams in conversation, Thunder will appear in the Black Lightning spin-off, the story behind those Lady Gaga Oreos, Reign’s Adelaide Kane comes out as bi, and more!