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Relationships

You Need Help: Am I Still Into Non-Monogamy or Not Really?

How do I navigate not knowing for sure whether monogamy or non-monogamy is for me? And how do I communicate that to my partner and my sexy friends?

KaeLyn April 12, 2022 21 Comments
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TV Reviews

The Owl House’s Queer Love Story Knows We Need Hope, a Little Happiness

Disney won’t stand up for gays, JK Rowling keeps coming after trans women — and then there’s The Owl House, telling the sweetest, gentlest, most beautiful story about two baby gay witches falling in love.

Heather Hogan April 12, 2022 7 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Derry Girls’ Wee Lesbian Is Getting a Joyful Love Story

The Rookie’s working out a backdoor pilot for a Niecy Nash show, ND Stevenson’s Nimona is actually a go (at Netflix), JoJo Siwa wasn’t invited to the Kids’ Choice Awards, and more.

Heather Hogan April 11, 2022 8 Comments
Photo 1: Ariana DeBose, with the award for Best Actress in a Supporting Role for her performance in "West Side Story", poses with Sue Makkoo as they attends the 2022 Vanity Fair Oscar Party following the 94th Oscars. They are both wearing black dresses. Photo 2: In the movie My Fair Lady, Audrey Hepburn us wearing a pink dress and standing. Photo 3: In the black-and-white movie Sabrina, Audrey Hepburn sits in a car next to Humphrey Bogart, who is driving. Photo 4: Holland Taylor and Sarah Paulson attend the 2019 Vanity Fair Oscar Party. Holland is wearing a black dress, and Sarah is wearing a pink poofy dress and holding a pink clutch.
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Iconic Queer Celebrity May-December Romances as Audrey Hepburn Movies

If there’s two things I love, it’s a romantic comedy and a gay May-December romance. So naturally, I’m here to compare these Audrey Hepburn films to iconic celesbian couples.

Analyssa April 11, 2022 11 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Killing Eve” Series Finale Recap: Goodbye, Lovers

Killing Eve comes to a tragic close in its markedly final series finale.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 11, 2022 134 Comments
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AF+

A+ Roundtable: Dealing With the Push To ‘Go Back to Normal’

“I try to take my Covid guidelines from the immunocompromised people in my life — not the government.”

the team April 11, 2022 37 Comments
Movie Reviews

“Moonshot” Review: I Wish I Had Just Rewatched Zenon

Sunita Deshpande and Cameron Esposito play a queer couple in space, but this mostly straight rom-com is too terrestrial to stand out.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 11, 2022 3 Comments
Burning Butch: A Memoir by R/B Mertz. The cover features a box of matches on it.
LGBT Book Reviews

“Burning Butch” Is the Trans Butch Memoir We’ve Always Needed

We’ve always needed books like Burning Butch out in the world reminding us that it’s possible to fight back, to overcome, and to survive despite all odds.

Stef Rubino April 11, 2022 1 Comment
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Non-Dairy Alternative Milk Are You?

Of all the dairy alternatives, you probably have your favorite. But which one are you on a spiritual level? Take the quiz to find out.

danijanae April 10, 2022 29 Comments
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TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Better Halves – Final Four

I’d wager a prediction about what’s going to happen next but y’all continue to surprise me and I think I’ll just wait and see what havoc is wreaked in this Final Four.

Natalie April 10, 2022 7 Comments
Drag Race episode 1414 recap: Angeria in a black gown and black hair piece kisses Willow dressed like a grey rat.
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1414 Recap: Double Penetration

It’s not just that Angeria and Willow are good — they’re also in sync with one another.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 9, 2022 7 Comments
Eight movies featured in this list: Turning Red, Brave, Tangled, Moana, Frozen, Mulan, The Incredibles, Dumbo
Movie Lists

Disney/Pixar Movies, Ranked by Mommy Issues

Who among us hasn’t been locked in a tower by our overbearing mothers (metaphorically)?

the team April 9, 2022 22 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Cameron Esposito’s Queerness Is Contagious on “A Million Little Things”

Also! Updates on Legacies, Top Chef’s queer cheftestants, Charmed, and Station 19’s yikes storyline!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
April 8, 2022 7 Comments
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Queer Fashion Shopping

Seven Spring Suits to Look Gay at Literally Every Occasion

Nothing quite says spring like bright colors, florals, and being the hottest person in line at Trader Joe’s.

danijanae April 8, 2022 3 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

JoJo Siwa Got an Alternative Lifestyle Haircut: Goodbye Pony, Watch Out World!

JoJo Siwa has undertaken an undercut!

Riese April 8, 2022 19 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Still Chasing Amy After All These Years

“I am absolutely shocked that the main character’s name is Alyssa…who is Amy???”

Darcy April 8, 2022 7 Comments
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House & Garden

So I Bought the Gay Green Couch

The instructions for putting this couch together stated in bold print “this is a two-person job! don’t try and do it by yourself!” and I said, “I’m a dyke” and proceeded to try and put it together by myself.

danijanae April 8, 2022 40 Comments
Spring Jewelry Guide. Photo 1: An O-ring collar body chain. Photo 2: A gold bangle. Photo 3: A gold snake ear cuff. Photo 4: A gold ring featuring an initial and a birthstone.
Queer Fashion Shopping

So You Want Some New Jewelry

Looking to shake up your accessories this season? In this iteration of So You Want To, we’re talking rings, earrings, bracelets, and necklaces.

Christina Tucker April 8, 2022 11 Comments
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TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Better Halves – Elite 8

Our Sweet 16 was by far the most competitive round of the tournament we’ve had thus far — so you better vote if you want your faves to advance!

Natalie April 7, 2022 5 Comments
An illustration of the film Jennifer's Body, with a woman having a bloodied mouth while holding the face of of a boy in front of her.
Gender

The Films That Helped Me Feel At Home In My Agender Experience

Being agender is something like the impossible made possible, as rare and unexpected as accidentally landing in the spirit realm, or happening upon mermaids in Poland.

Katie Alafdal April 7, 2022 12 Comments
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