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First Person Issues

The Music I’ve Made Out To: An Ode to Queer Kissing in Public

I believe in making out at the club, at the dance party, in the backseat of your car, in the corridor to the stairwell of your building, in the movie theater, at concerts, on the beach, at sports events, and at the brewery where making out isn’t really the vibe but you’re so hot for it you do it anyways.

Stef Rubino January 8, 2025 6 Comments
Towa Bird and Reneé Rapp in matching pinstripe suits
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: There Is Something So Comforting About Dykes in Pinstripes

Towa Bird and Reneé Rapp unlock lesbian achievement level: wearing matching pinstripe suits.

Christina Tucker January 8, 2025
Images from trans films in pairs of two with an arrow from the "worse" one to a circle around the "better" one
Movie Lists

If You Hated These Award-Winning Trans Films, Watch These Actually Good Trans Films Instead

For every award-winning trans movie made largely by people who don’t know anything about us, there’s a good movie made with an understanding of us or — GASP! — actually made by us.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 8, 2025 4 Comments
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - NOVEMBER 13: Zoe Saldana arrives to "The Late Show With Stephen Colbert" at the Ed Sullivan Theater on November 13, 2024 in New York City. (Photo by James Devaney/GC Images)
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Zoe Saldaña Thinks Masculine Women Are Sexy and Girls Are Better Kissers

Golden Globe winner Zoe Saldaña talked to W Magazine about her childhood crushes, her first kisses and who she thinks is the most sexy.

Riese January 7, 2025 3 Comments
Kristen Arnett holding copies of her book Stop Me If You've Heard This One on a Florida bookstore road trip
Book Features Travel

We Took a Gay Literary Road Trip Through Central Florida, and You Should Too!

As Florida now leads the nation in book bans, putting together a little Florida road trip travel guide oriented around independent bookstores feels meaningful. There’s more to this place than theme parks and beaches. Adding a Florida bookstore road trip to your next vacation in the sunshine state will let you see parts of this place in a deeper way.

Kristen Arnett January 7, 2025 6 Comments
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Shopping

Indie Scents That’ll Have You Smelling Your Best in 2025

I do promise there is an indie perfume out there for everyone! In this indie perfume guide, there’s a pizza-inspired perfume and a Hannibal Lecter-inspired perfume. The duality of man!

ashni January 7, 2025 3 Comments
"A few years ago, when I met the person who is now my best friend, I definitely had a big crush."
Friendship

‘Is It Okay if I Stay in Love With My Best Friend?’

“We’re not going to get together for a lot of reasons — I don’t really have time for a new partner, they’re monogamous and I am not, and they’re just not into me in the same way that I’m into them.”

Summer Tao January 7, 2025 1 Comment
Pop Culture Fix

All The Queer 2025 Golden Globes Winners: Baby Reindeer, Hacks, Wicked, Emilia Pérez and More

Everything gay about the Golden Globes, JoJo Siwa’s new music video about her exes, Kathryn Gallagher and Jacqueline Toboni kiss, Angelina Jolie at a roundtable with greats like Zoe Saldaña, and more!

Valerie Anne January 6, 2025 10 Comments
Emilia Pérez trans review: a close up of Karla Sofia Gascón
Movie Reviews

‘Emilia Pérez’ Is the Most Unique Cis Nonsense You’ll Ever See

There are many bad movies made by cis writers and directors about trans women. But you’ve never seen a bad movie about a trans woman like Jacques Audiard’s Emilia Pérez.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 6, 2025 15 Comments
Book Lists

11 Great Queer Novels About Sisters

For as long as I can remember, I have been drawn to stories about sisters.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 6, 2025 2 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Lesbian Sweater Are You?

What’s a lesbian sweater? So glad you asked, but also, you have to take the quiz to find out!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 5, 2025 9 Comments
Recap: Kori King and Lexi Love laugh in the work room in RuPaul's Drag Race 1701.
TV Show Recaps

‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ Episode 1701 Recap: Back to Reality

Katy Perry is a surprisingly harsh judge for someone whose greatest talent is killing nuns.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 4, 2025 2 Comments
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AF+

Neither Of Us Know How To Make the First Move Sober. Will We Ever Have Sex Again?

Now that you’re sober, you’ve forgotten how to successfully initiate sex! Also, a reader’s partner has checked out post-election.

the team January 3, 2025 2 Comments
Kelley O'Hara and Tusk interview about the short film Ripe! Raina Landolfi and Rita Roca gaze at each other on a rocky beach
Movie Features

Kelley O’Hara and Filmmaking Duo Tusk Want More Lesbian Happy Endings

Kelley O’Hara, executive producer of the new film Ripe!, wants to see more sapphic joy like her own on-screen.

Ajax Ammons January 3, 2025 1 Comment
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First Person

The Gray Sweatpants That Changed Everything

I can be femme and strong and gay and comfortable and hot and relaxed, all embodied in one outfit.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 3, 2025 7 Comments
Ruby Cruz interview: Ruby Cruz in The Sex Lives of College Girls.
TV Feature

Ruby Cruz Joins ‘The Sex Lives of College Girls’ and Shares Her Favorite Horror Movies

“I’m always down to contribute to more queer representation. Always down.”

Rendy Jones January 2, 2025 1 Comment
Britt Migs doing her show Dolphin Mode
Comedy

What It’s Like To Get Divorced, Come Out, Fall in Queer Love, and Then Tell Jokes About All of It on Stage

Comedian Britt Migs’ solo show Dolphin Mode isn’t just a divorce story; it’s also a coming-out story and a love story.

Audrey Black January 2, 2025 1 Comment
a performer in a mask
First Person

The Erotics of Masks

Wearing a mask felt similar to how I usually identified as a stone top.

MK January 2, 2025 8 Comments
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First Person Issues

What If The Girl You Made Out With On New Year’s Eve Becomes Your Wife?

“You tell everyone you see that night, including but not limited to all the friends you came with, another friend you run into, a stranger on the street, your dog and your Uber driver, that you are not going to have sex because you don’t want to ruin the friendship.”

Riese January 1, 2025 29 Comments
A collage with the zodiac wheel in the center and 2025 year-long horoscopes underneath
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Horoscopes for the Year 2025

Find out what 2025 will bring you with love, career, money, health, and more!

Deb Roe January 1, 2025
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