Results for: love is a lie
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I’m Masculine, I Strap, I Love Being Called “Sir”… Am I Trans or a Masc Lesbian?
In this week’s AF+ Advice box: trying to figure out if you’re trans or a masculine lesbian, finding good lesbian love poems for a wedding, complicated feelings about an ex and group chat drama.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #88: THE HOTBOX
In which we answer the age-old queer question. How long do you wait after a breakup before hooking up with other people?
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Autostraddle Insider Issue #104: Goodbye Heather Edition
Heather knows, she knows, how to connect with people through stories and writing, she knows how to make you feel seen, buoyed, valued, special, important, remarkable.
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 97: October 2022
“Extremely weird that there are two queer media subjects named TAR right now.”
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How Do I Re-Friend-Zone My Friend After the Worst Sex of My Life?
Advice on how to stay friends when the friend you hooked up with wants more, flagging with carabiners, and whether it’s okay if your wife is your only IRL friend.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #77: Should You Co-Parent With Your Queer Friends?
Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Inbox #96: So You Hate College
Will your friend ever want to be something more? Can you be friends with your friend’s ex? The team answers these questions and more!
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I Think My Girlfriend Is Drugging My Dog
In this week’s advice box, a relationship plagued by dog problems and possible dishonesty, how to support a partner convinced they’re worthless without a job, and safe sex for poly people.
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Apparently, Shame Tastes Like My Cunt
“The other partners I had throughout much of my time in sex work were uncomfortable at best and shaming at worst. They were jealous and confused. ‘How can you interact with men like this?'”
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Help! My Friends Won’t Shut Up
Plus advice about leaving a controlling partner and getting second dates.
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Notes from Hell: Divorce Year
“This isn’t going to work is it.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #84: Cheating With a Guy While Having Gender Feelings
If a date doesn’t suggest a meetup, does that mean they’re not interested? Should you break up over differences in how you relate to sex and desire? What’re tips for coping with treatment resistant ADHD? And more!
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Into the A+ Box #85: POLYAMORY
“The right people will understand this. Trust that you will find them.”
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 92: May 2022
“ANYWAY YEAH come get a scorpion!”
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Interview With My Partner: Gerrie
“The playlist that was basically titled: ‘I know I said I’m not into a relationship, but I love you.'”
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I Think My Hot Girlfriend Is Gonna Leave Me For Someone Hotter
Advice for coping when your Instagram-beloved girlfriend seems too hot for you, rekindling romance after long Covid, and how to flirt — gayly.
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Interview With My Girlfriend: Gretchen
We had a kickball game and I said, “if we win, we can talk about what this is. And if we lose, then we continue hooking up and we don’t have to talk about it.”
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Not Grateful Enough
“Thank you for pushing me down a ramp so quickly that I slammed into a wall.”
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 98: November 2022
“no one gives you a free personal pan pizza when you do something you really, really don’t want to do! we live in a crumbling society”
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 102: March 2023
CUT MY LIFE INTO PIECES