Results for: be the change
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Into the A+ Advice Box #86: Your Fertility Journey and Complicated Feelings About Straight Friends
Signaling that you’re queer, the importance of friends in dating, a-traditional proposals and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #79: Dating Women Who’ve Previously Only Been With Men
Advice for coping with your partner’s internalized fat-phobia, wedding vows, navigating social situations and friendships as an autistic person, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Inbox #96: So You Hate College
Will your friend ever want to be something more? Can you be friends with your friend’s ex? The team answers these questions and more!
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The Eras of My Bisexuality
She was the straight, white, Christian girl who was so picture perfect no one could dislike her.
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The Autostraddle Insider #106: December 2023
“Why did Riese and I write 50,000 words about this Hanukkah movie.”
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The Group Chat: Our Gay Boyfriends
I was a theatre kid for sure, but even by theatre kid standards… if your “dates” involve going to see Rocky Horror Picture Show together? That is homosexual activity, my love.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #70: LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIPS
The team answers your questions about keeping those fires burning!
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A+ Roundtable: Dealing With Our Enemies
“Is it even possible to be from New Jersey and not have enemies?”
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I Think My Girlfriend Is Drugging My Dog
In this week’s advice box, a relationship plagued by dog problems and possible dishonesty, how to support a partner convinced they’re worthless without a job, and safe sex for poly people.
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Editor’s Notes: Trans Awareness Week
What can a publication do that tries to center trans people all-year-round?
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I’m Masculine, I Strap, I Love Being Called “Sir”… Am I Trans or a Masc Lesbian?
In this week’s AF+ Advice box: trying to figure out if you’re trans or a masculine lesbian, finding good lesbian love poems for a wedding, complicated feelings about an ex and group chat drama.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #30: Lonely, Jealous, and Wrapped up in Pandemic Anxiety
Pandemic haircuts, changing your perception around friendships, do you want kids, do you need to know what you’re looking for when dating, feeling weird about not feeling New Relationship Energy, and more!
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Chris Belcher Talked With the A+ Book Club About Academia, Memory and More!
“LOL yeah, I lusted for those spencers sex toys so bad”
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2022 By the Numbers: An A+ Member Exclusive
It’s time for our annual look at what went down last year: expenses and revenue, most popular posts, top merch and so much more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #76: JEALOUSY AND ENVY
“That’s what envy’s like. Not just wanting what other people have, but becoming so consumed by it that you end up casting yourself as a supporting character in their story, instead of inhabiting the full and wondrous world of your own story, where you’re the main character.”
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Into the AF+ Advice Inbox #97: F(ix) My Life
A troublesome group chat, a moldy shower, being autistic at work, moving cities, and more!
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Finding Magic After a Difficult Year
It’s easy to get overwhelmed by crashing Towers and painful Deaths, the big changes and shifts within and around us, the endings and releasings and restructurings. But even when we aren’t sure what the fruits of our labors will be just yet, that doesn’t mean that nothing is happening. Sometimes we shift and change in the darkest spaces, hidden from the world and even ourselves, slowly adapting until we are transformed from within.
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Into the A+ Box #85: POLYAMORY
“The right people will understand this. Trust that you will find them.”
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A Nonbinary Grad Student With Zero Cis Men Experience Enters Their Bi Era with Kink, Play Parties, and Domming
“Even though I love subbing for dykes, domming them is intimidating. But with guys, I find that I can slip into dominance as effortlessly as sliding into a well-worn Birkenstock.”
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Anonymous Job Confession: A Hot Barista and Nightmare Spreadsheets
“It became what I thought was just a one-sided crush — a nice thing to daydream about while I was filling out the most horrendous, huge spreadsheets I had ever seen.”