Results for: be the change
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Into the A+ Advice Box #70: LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIPS
The team answers your questions about keeping those fires burning!
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I’m Masculine, I Strap, I Love Being Called “Sir”… Am I Trans or a Masc Lesbian?
In this week’s AF+ Advice box: trying to figure out if you’re trans or a masculine lesbian, finding good lesbian love poems for a wedding, complicated feelings about an ex and group chat drama.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #30: Lonely, Jealous, and Wrapped up in Pandemic Anxiety
Pandemic haircuts, changing your perception around friendships, do you want kids, do you need to know what you’re looking for when dating, feeling weird about not feeling New Relationship Energy, and more!
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Into the AF+ Advice Inbox #97: F(ix) My Life
A troublesome group chat, a moldy shower, being autistic at work, moving cities, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #76: JEALOUSY AND ENVY
“That’s what envy’s like. Not just wanting what other people have, but becoming so consumed by it that you end up casting yourself as a supporting character in their story, instead of inhabiting the full and wondrous world of your own story, where you’re the main character.”
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Into the A+ Box #85: POLYAMORY
“The right people will understand this. Trust that you will find them.”
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How Do I Re-Friend-Zone My Friend After the Worst Sex of My Life?
Advice on how to stay friends when the friend you hooked up with wants more, flagging with carabiners, and whether it’s okay if your wife is your only IRL friend.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #88: THE HOTBOX
In which we answer the age-old queer question. How long do you wait after a breakup before hooking up with other people?
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Is Refusing To Share My Location a Red Flag?
A request from a younger girlfriend has a reader wondering if her aversion to location sharing is a generational conflict. Also: how to keep a relationship sexy without sex and how to celebrate newfound queer desire and forgive our younger selves.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #77: Should You Co-Parent With Your Queer Friends?
Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #78: Forgiveness and Accountability
Should you forgive an abusive parent? What should you do with a conflict between your ex girlfriend and a friend? And more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #65: So You Think You Might Be Gender Fluid
Advice on studying with ADHD, envying they/them pronouns, finding the best outfits to match glamorous heels, masturbation, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #63: What If Other People Think You’re “A Lot”?
How do you stop comparing yourself to your girlfriend’s nesting partner, have big life conversations with your partner, deal with feeling your friends don’t love you as much as you love them, and more?
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Into the A+ Advice Box #69: What If You Have a Stalker?
Supporting a partner with an HIV diagnosis, dating anxiety, dressing while pregnant, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #67: Surviving the End of a 9-Year Relationship
Looking for children’s books with queer moms, binding as a cis woman, communications issues in relationships, and more!
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I’m A Newly Single Older Lesbian Baffled By What My Dates Expect From Me Sexually
An older lesbian needs advice for coping with dates expecting her to desire penetration, plus advice on the politics of dietary restrictions, finding love while allergic to cats, and the classic two bottoms: one relationship.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #94: I Don’t Think My Queer Relative Should Get Married
Advice on supporting a partner rejected by their family, non-competitive boardgames, period depression…and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #64: BREAKING UP
Breaking up with a queer anti-choice friend, your partner isn’t over their ex, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #73: Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Like Your Soft Butch Haircut
Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #51: “Bed Death,” Opening Up Relationships and DIY Haircuts
In which our A+ members get advice from the AS Team on a recent mental health diagnosis, insecurity about a girlfriend’s bisexuality, climate grief, cutting your own hair, some stellar showering advice, and more!