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First Person

For Your Consideration: Roasting a Full Duck Because You Miss Your Dog

I’m a slob in the kitchen. I’m a slob in most domains of my life, but especially in the kitchen. I’ve always known this, but living with Lola made me forget just how bad I was.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 12, 2025 10 Comments
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Dykes Discuss ‘The White Lotus’ Season Three

*Parker Posey Southern Accent* Three dykes discuss The White Lotus season three, pitch The White Lotus: Florida, thirst for Walton Goggins, and ask important questions, like: Monkeys…what do they know? Are they scary? Scarier than PANTHERS? How did we end up on panthers? Guess you’ll have to read to find out. Let’s DISCUSS.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya, Christina Tucker and Drew Burnett Gregory
March 12, 2025 13 Comments
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Gender

‘I’m Lost in the Gender Expression Sauce’

“I always thought, if I weren’t a trans man, I’d be a butch lesbian.”

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It’s Time for a ‘Hacks’ Season Four Trailer Close Read!

Toxicity is BACK!

Christina Tucker March 11, 2025
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Book Features

Clowning Around With Kristen Arnett

“How many scenes have had people work something out at a diner? Can’t that happen at an Olive Garden?”

Drew Burnett Gregory March 11, 2025 3 Comments
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Culture Visual Art

Which of Your Possessions Belongs in a Trans Museum?

Small grassroots LGBTQ+ museums, archives, and galleries are redefining what it means to preserve and display trans histories.

Emma Cieslik March 11, 2025 3 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Lady Gaga Is Fly and Bi As the Host of ‘Saturday Night Live’

Lady Gaga sings her heart out on SNL, The Last of Us drops a trailer, The Wiggles said “gay rights” and more queer news for you.

Valerie Anne March 10, 2025 3 Comments
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Movie Lists

50 LGBTQ+ Movies To Stream on Netflix With Lesbian, Bisexual and Trans Characters

Wanna watch a Netflix movie with lesbian, bisexual, queer or trans characters? We’ve got your round-up of every Netflix lesbian movie currently streaming, and our recommendations.

Riese March 10, 2025 98 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Lesbian Wall Art Are You?

Today, please enjoy a series of questions that are exclusively Lady Gaga-themed and breakfast-themed for some reason.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 9, 2025 15 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ Episode 1710: Friendly Fire

Whitney Cummings is there to teach the queens about comedy which should’ve been the first sign that the roast would be rough.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 8, 2025 7 Comments
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Music

Lady Gaga’s ‘Mayhem’ Is a Return To Form AND an Evolution in Sound

Mayhem offers a celebration of her past, a reflection of her present, and a small glimpse into what we might see more of from her in the future.

Stef Rubino March 7, 2025 2 Comments
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AF+

Can We Make Sure This New Baby Doesn’t Torpedo Our Friendships?

How can you make sure you don’t under-prioritize your friendships after having a baby? Also, recommendations for wax play!

the team March 7, 2025 2 Comments
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TV Feature

Every Gabby Windey Roundtable Look on ‘The Traitors’ Ranked

Gabby was an easy player to root for all season and not just because she’s a lesbian.

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TV Show Recaps

Yellowjackets Episode 305 Recap: Becoming Monstrous

The Yellowjackets believe the only way to survive is to kill their humanity.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 7, 2025 54 Comments
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Health

How Can Trans Women Deal With Erectile Dysfunction?

Erectile dysfunction is consistently counted among the most common sexual disorders. It’s also a topic close to my heart (and other organs) because I experience it.

Summer Tao March 6, 2025 13 Comments
Book Lists

Queer Books To Read if You Love ‘Yellowjackets’

Feminist fairytales, girlhood horror, and genre-bending books for the feral gays hungry for more Yellowjackets-adjacent stories!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 6, 2025 10 Comments
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LGBT History Movie Features

Why Hasn’t There Been a Good Movie About the Stonewall Riots?

Thirty years after Stonewall (1995), there still hasn’t been a film that meaningfully captures this major LGBTQ+ historical event.

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The WNBA’s All-Time Leading Scorer Diana Taurasi Has Retired

Honestly, it’s hard to imagine the game without Taurasi.

Natalie March 5, 2025 5 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Reneé Rapp Met Beyoncé and More Gay Happenings From the Oscars After Parties

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