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Still of Teddy and Cristina from Grey's Anatomy. Teddy is drinking champagne, Cristina is looking at her as she does.
TV Feature

I Still Can’t Believe Teddy Altman is Bisexual

I always think of fanfiction as gift. I will remain endlessly grateful to it for teaching me to take what I need from media and leave the rest, for teaching me that the images on our movie and television screens matter, and for reminding me that there is so much more to it than that.

Christina Tucker June 17, 2021 9 Comments
Mae Martin lies on a roof with one hand on her chest and dead leaves around them
TV Feature

Mae Martin on “Feel Good,” Labels, and Getting Kicked Off Hinge

“When I read the interviews I’m like this doesn’t sound funny at all. But I swear it is. Just watch the show.”

Drew Burnett Gregory June 7, 2021 16 Comments
Sweet Marley Rose smiles wearing sunshine yellow against a clear teal background.
TV Feature

I Still Can’t Believe They Did Marley Rose So Dirty on Glee

I’m here to bitch about the one thing I feel like not enough people speak up about when listing things Glee did wrong, like how they continued to let Matthew Morrison rap or how Finn outed Santana: The way they treated Sweet Marley Rose.

Valerie Anne June 3, 2021 16 Comments
Rebecca Breeds as Clarice Starling wearing her FBI jacket is framed in a mirror
TV Feature

“Clarice” Proves There’s No Such Thing As a Progressive Procedural

The Silence of the Lambs was right. Trans women and law enforcement are enemies. All it got wrong was the villain.

Drew Burnett Gregory June 3, 2021 10 Comments
In a diagonal collage, Daniela Sea is at age 7 in the woods, then staring as Max in the L Word, and finally a recent photo that is a close up of their face being held in their hands.
The L Word TV Feature

Daniel Sea On “The L Word,” Gender Identity, and Imagining Queer Liberation

“I spoke about gender identity, sexuality, and my past with journalists and people in Hollywood who just didn’t understand the language I was using. It was a culture shock for me.” — Daniel Sea

Drew Burnett Gregory May 31, 2021 62 Comments
Marissa and Alex driving in a car together
TV Feature

I Still Can’t Believe a Sixty Second Scene from “The OC” is My Gay Root

When Marissa asks Alex if she ever misses her parents, Alex’s answer comes quickly: “Sometimes. But my friends are my family you know?”

Vanessa May 27, 2021 16 Comments
Image shows a yellow box with the text "Moments in love" inside it and behind it there is an image of branches.
TV Feature

“Master of None” Roundtable: Sparks of Queer Black Brilliance in an Unsatisfying Story

“All around I wanted something sweeter. We so rarely see two BLACK women loving each other I was hoping it would be triumphant. I get that love and relationships are complicated but I feel like you can portray that in more interesting ways.”

The Speakeasy May 27, 2021 5 Comments
In an interview with Autostraddle via zoom, Lena Waithe is in a brown sweater and wearing many gold rings across her fingers. She's on a brown couch with light blue artwork behind her against a white wall. She's smiling and talking with her hands.
TV Feature

Lena Waithe on “Master of None” and Making Messy Beautiful Black Lesbian Art

“I wasn’t afraid to make myself the villain. I wasn’t afraid to make Denise not likable at times, because even in doing that, my hope is that you will see yourself.”

Carmen Phillips May 24, 2021 15 Comments
Bethenny Frankel talks on the phone on Real Housewives of New York
TV Feature

I Still Can’t Believe How Relatable Jill and Bethenny’s Friendship Breakup Was On “Real Housewives Of New York”

People want to believe that friendships are forever but Jill and Bethenny are striking examples that sometimes all you can do is wish each other the best and move on.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 20, 2021 6 Comments
Ellen DeGeneres sits on the set of her talkshow in a white blazer, blue button-up, and jeans
TV Feature

Ellen DeGeneres Is Ending Her Talk Show Amid Endless Backlash (But Reportedly Not Because of Backlash)

I’m grateful for Ellen. And I hope she does continue to try to do as much good as she can in the world. I also hope, along the way, she learns that calls for civility have most often been used to silence the oppressed, that kindness is not justice, and that being nice isn’t enough. 

Heather Hogan May 12, 2021 21 Comments
Monica, Phoebe, and Ross look at Chandler in the middle of the Central Perk coffee shop
TV Feature

I Still Can’t Believe “Friends” Was The First Time I Saw Myself On-Screen

Friends was the first time I saw my transness on TV, but it wasn’t Chandler’s dad — it was Chandler.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 6, 2021 27 Comments
Katee Sackhoff as Captain Kara 'Starbuck' Thrace
TV Feature

I Still Can’t Believe Anyone on “Battlestar Galactica” Was Straight

The show with the most chaotic bisexual energy should have featured a lot more bisexual chaos.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 29, 2021 87 Comments
Emily and Alison's feet touching
TV Feature

I Still Can’t Believe Pretty Little Liars Thought Ankle Rubbing Was Lesbian Sex

The one image that stands out to me after all this time — the one that I still, to this day, cannot believe — is during the series finale when all the straight couples were having sex, and, instead of doing that, Emily Fields and Alison DiLaurentis rubbed their bare ankles together.

Heather Hogan April 22, 2021 22 Comments
Waverly and Nicole in Wynonna Earp's fourth season
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Canon vs. Fanon Champion – WAYHAUGHT!

Maybe they were the anti-fanon. Maybe Waverly and Nicole were the only couple who could’ve won this all along.

Natalie April 15, 2021 22 Comments
Buffy and Faith / Hermione Granger
Book Features TV Feature

Joss Whedon and JK Rowling Don’t Own My Queer Narratives

Whedon and Rowling don’t get to lay claim to the stories we wrote, whether they were in fan fiction, on forums, or even just in our own, quiet thoughts. We own the narratives that give us meaning.

Shelly Jay Shore April 13, 2021 19 Comments
WayHaught vs. SuperCorp
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Canon vs. Fanon Final

This should be chill.

Natalie April 12, 2021 60 Comments
Autostraddle March Madness Final Four
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Final Four

WayHaught vs Juliantina vs SuperCorp vs Villaneve! It’s Mayhem!

Natalie April 7, 2021 77 Comments
8 couples competing in the Autostraddle Elite 8.
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Canon vs. Fanon — Elite 8

Yeah, I’m not sure March Madness is doing much for my sanity.

Natalie April 5, 2021 32 Comments
The 16 couples that made it to the next round!
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Canon vs. Fanon – Sweet 16

Some of these choices are going to really test your loyalty!

Natalie April 2, 2021 20 Comments
Collage of the 32 couples remaining in this round of voting.
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Canon vs. Fanon – Round 2

32 couples remain!

Natalie March 31, 2021 18 Comments
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