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Tech Spring Cleaning Part 5: RAM and Technicians Are Your Friends

This week is our last week, and it’s easy. Not like our previous week.

A.E. Osworth June 1, 2013 13 Comments
TV News & Trailers

Betty McRae and Jenny Schecter Join Cast Of “Lost Girl,” Ensuring Maximum Threesome Potential

Ali Liebert and Mia Kirshner and George Takei are joining Anna Silk’s breasts and the entire cast of “Lost Girl” for its fourth triumphant season!

Riese May 31, 2013 42 Comments
First Person

Butch Please: Butch in the Airport

Sometimes I am proud as a stone of my genderqueer identity. But sometimes I miss womanhood with a fierce hot ache that feels an awful lot like missing my mother, or my grandmother, or my ability to sit at their table for family meals.

Kate May 31, 2013 73 Comments
Sex

On Sex Positivity: My Weirdo Feelings About Lesbians Reacting to “Lesbian” Porn

There is not a right way to have lesbian sex. There is not a queer hierarchy. There is simply safety and the things you like to do in bed.

A.E. Osworth May 31, 2013 234 Comments
Straddleverse

Comment Awards Are Back On Your Level

This week in bears, summer Somer and a post-camp feelings!

carrie May 31, 2013 5 Comments
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Girl-on-World: Aloha Spirit Fingers In The Hawaiian Sky

My girlfriend took me on her work trip to Oahu, where I ate and beached and learned and museumed and only suffered one major physical injury!

Riese May 31, 2013 34 Comments
The Scene

You Should Go Eat Dinner With One Table, Ashley Merriman, and Vanessa

Come have dinner with me and the One Table crew in Brooklyn! Chef Ashley Merriman will be there! We love her.

Vanessa May 31, 2013 2 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #77: Rage, Rage Against The Coming Of The Light

Topics include binge-watching TV, wikipedia, Mary Kay, why The Great Gatsby sucks, Freedomland!, ANTM, Hunter S. Thompson, oversharing, lesbian nightlife romances and more!

Riese May 31, 2013 15 Comments
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You Can Take It With You: Zucchini Pakoras

Need something quick and delicious (if not necessarily nutritious?) We’ve got just the thing for all your snacking needs.

Laura May 31, 2013 10 Comments
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Lez Get Dressed For Work: Hot & Sweaty Summertime Femme

How to emerge from that pool of sweat looking fabulous, for humans who wear dresses and makeup.

Gabrielle Korn May 31, 2013 96 Comments
Politics + Activism

Turning the Tide: How Activism to Protect Queer Students and Communities Works

How activists in Louisiana use everything from direct action to meetings with senators to try to pass laws that would protect queer and trans* students from bullying, queer and trans* employees from discrimination, and more. This is how your legal progress sausage is made.

Penelope May 30, 2013 10 Comments
First Person

A Prairie Homo Does New York: Race and the Subway

New York has histories and politics etched deep into the subway lines it could take me a lifetime to study; so I start by studying the woman seated across from me.

Malaika May 30, 2013 7 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #21: A Lemon Wrapped Around A Gold Brick

In this edition of Lez Liberty Lit: the best literary cocktails, reading and forgetting, remembering the queer dead and more.

Ryan Yates May 30, 2013 4 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

You Should Go: Double Scoop Of Boston Fun

Somer Bingham rocks tonight, Julie Goldman talks tomorrow!

Cara May 30, 2013 15 Comments
Sex

Super Girly Top Secret Erika Moen: The Autostraddle Interview

In which Erika Moen, the mastermind behind DAR! and Oh Joy, Sex Toy, tells us to go have a wank.

A.E. Osworth May 30, 2013 25 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Jessie J, DeAnne Smith, and This Bear Think Camp is Forever

Jessie J’s new music video, the most talented bear in the world, Easy Abby’s season finale, and DeAnne Smith’s webseries are partying back in the real world.

Brittani May 30, 2013 11 Comments
Movie News & Trailers

Lesbian Film “Blue is the Warmest Color” Wins Cannes Palme D’Or, And Not Just Because of The Sex Scene

Despite worries that its content would turn off judges, an explicit lesbian romance took the top prize at the Cannes Film Festival.

Rose May 29, 2013 70 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Queer Dark Comedy Webseries “Little Horribles” Premieres Today

Brittani’s Team Pick: “Little Horribles” is a darkly comedic webseries following the poor decisions of a self-indulgent lesbian and the first episode is out now!

Brittani May 29, 2013 11 Comments
Gender

Lucy Meadows’ Coroner Says Press Deserves Shame for Her Death

The coroner on Lucy Meadows’ case says the press should be ashamed of the way it harassed and sensationalized trans woman Lucy Meadows in the months before her suicide.

Savannah May 29, 2013 7 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Anti-Gay People Are Wreaking Havoc Worldwide and Other Stories We Missed This Week

I’ve got some bad news and a great GIF.

Carmen May 29, 2013 15 Comments
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