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Obama Supports Respect for Marriage Act to Repeal DOMA, Make Gay People Happy

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Sen. Dianne Feinstein, AP Photo

Today Senators Dianne Feinstein, Patrick Leahy and Kristen Gillibrand introduced the "Respect for Marriage Act," which aims to repeal all three sections of the Defense of Marriage Act, otherwise known as "DOMA." As you're aware, DOMA strictly defines marriage as being between a man and a woman. Feinstein, a California democrat, was one of 14 Senators who opposed the legislation when it was first introduced in 1996.

You can read the entire Respect for Marriage Act bill here.

Guess who's endorsing this bill? Barack F*cking Obama, that's who. White House spokesman Shin Inouye:

"The president has long called for a legislative repeal of the so-called Defense of Marriage Act, which continues to have a real impact on the lives of real people – our families, friends and neighbors."

White House press secretary Jay Carney:

"Obama is proud to support the Respect for Marriage Act.”

For a look at "how far we've come," here's what our BFF Slick Willie Clinton said about gay marriage in 1996:

"I remain opposed to same-sex marriage. I believe marriage is an institution for the union of a man and a woman. This has been my long-standing position, and it is not being reviewed or reconsidered."

Clinton has obviously since reviewed and reconsidered his position.

Many wish that Obama would take the next step and actually endorse marriage equality instead of "leaving it up to the states" -- but as public opinion tips in our favor, it's possible state-by-state legislation might be a very realistic means to our collective ends. It's also worth noting that a bulk of Obama's campaign funds are coming out of California this year, and more specifically The Bay Area, which is the gayest place on earth.

The Senate Committee Hearing takes place tomorrow and will include testimonies from same-sex couples. The bill has 27 co-sponsors and none of those sponsors are Republicans.

Feinstein says that if they don't succeed this session then they'll try again next session. For more about the Obama Administration's relationship to DOMA, read this.

40 responses to “Obama Supports Respect for Marriage Act to Repeal DOMA, Make Gay People Happy”

  1. Jenna91345

    Happy dance!

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  2. Cassandra

    How did this happen?

    Like seriously, I’m sure about six months ago it seemed like this fight might not be won for decades. I do understand. It is magic.

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    1. Cassandra

      *do not. oops

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    2. Remich

      I’d guess it started with the DOJ deciding not to defend DOMA in the Second Circuit. When they made that decision and the earth / “independent” voting base didn’t spontaneously self-destruct, it became easier for the White House to edge towards supporting full DOMA repeal. Oh campaign years… 2012 is going to be a ball of laughs. And possibly terrible.

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  3. Ar

    All we do is win.

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  4. Heather

    what great news!

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  5. Carmen SanDiego

    Sorry to be a Deb but why wasn’t this proposed when the Democrats had the majority in the House of Representatives last year? Proposing a bill you know won’t pass fells like they’re just giving us crumbs and trying to get us to open our wallets since election season is upon us… I’m not impressed.

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    1. JC

      I think at this point they might be banking on the fact that the House and Senate are a little too busy w/r/t financial legislation to give this a real fight that would eat up lots of time and they could finally push it through just to get it over with. I do see feel your confusion though, GOP controlled House and this bill do not mix.

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      1. Carmen SanDiego

        It’s all an act to get the donations flowing and make us think they’re doing something.
        This is from the Boston.com article linked above “Feinstein said she is under no illusion that Congress will act this year to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act. Still, she views the committee hearing as an important first step.”
        Not even Senator Feinstein thinks it will pass. I mean, they couldn’t get a single Republican co-sponsor.

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        1. chrissie riot

          It’s a lot more than we would get from a Republican president and more than we’ve ever gotten from any president.

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    2. Emma

      because they were too busy passing health care reform and other things that are more important?

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      1. Carmen SanDiego

        The 111th Congress passed more bills than any other Congress since the 1960s and yet they didn’t even try to get DOMA repealed, even though they had the majority of the House and the Senate.

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        1. magiclovemuffin

          Just because Democrats had a majority doesn’t mean it would’ve passed. There are still conservative Democrats who won’t risk a vote to “change the definition of marriage.” I think we still have a bit of time ahead before all Democrats embrace allowing gay marriage.

          I think attitudes will continue to move out way, but it may also just come down to some current Democrats being replaced or Democrats taking Republican seats. I don’t think 2012 is going to be a good one for Democrats either (though I don’t think it will be the bloodbath 2010 was). So we may need to wait for 2014 or 2016. A lot of public favor hinges on the economy and the president.

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          1. Carmen SanDiego

            “Just because Democrats had a majority doesn’t mean it would’ve passed. ”
            Do you think that DOMA repeal has a better chance to pass today than when the Dems had the majority? I don’t.

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            1. magiclovemuffin

              No, I think it has an equally bad chance. The thing is, you need x number of votes. It doesn’t matter if you’re a little closer to that or not, you still need to reach that x number. We weren’t going to reach it then and we still aren’t now. It had no chance of passing either way.

              I’m not saying it’s worthless to bring up something you think will fail and you can really make it an issue and to try to get more votes, but a) given what they faced with the economy and healthcare and b) given the unlikihood of drumming up enough support, I just don’t see them making an issue out of marriage then. Republicans are slowly losing gay marriage as a wedge issue that works for them. Pretty soon it will go the other way and Democrats will want to use it politically. But it will wait for Dems to control things again. I don’t see how we win back the House in 2012. We could even lose the Senate as we are clinging on for dear life. I think DOMA could be repealed in the next 4 to 6 years though.

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  6. Leila

    Might I just say that if one is to put an emphatic “fucking” in the middle of the POTUS’ name, it should be placed like so: BARACK O-FUCKING-BAMA!!

    It just sounds better.

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    1. macmac89

      Agreed. H.R. 496, “Emphatic ‘Fucking’ Bill” is hereby passed.

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      1. Arls

        Isn’t that the bill you get when you check out of your honeymoon hotel?

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  7. Peaches

    Bah, he’ll say anything to make you happy and take your money.

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    1. Carmen SanDiego

      precisely.

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  8. lj

    Who wants to watch them have that hearing, go here! http://www.judiciary.senate.gov/hearings/hearing.cfm?id=3d9031b47812de2592c3baeba620f0e6

    Things at least FEEL like they are looking up. With a partner abroad and a desperate need for a green card, things like this make me wicked happy. But wow it would be practically unbelievable if DOMA got its proper kick in the ass. Bill Clinton is going to have to buy me a lot of cheeseburgers to make up for that a** move. He signed DOMA just before the 96 election. Doing the math there takes no genius.

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    1. Carmen SanDiego

      The Clintons claimed, at the time and later, that it was the least horrible of a number of options – including an amendment – floating around.

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    2. Carmen SanDiego

      Also, as the foreign half of a bi-national couple, I salute you and wish you the best of luck in fixing your partner’s situation.

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  9. magiclovemuffin

    I love Kristen Gillibrand and I am proud to have her as my senator. Glad to see senators like Feinstein, Whitehouse and Gillibrand co-sponsoring this with elections looming for them in 2012. I’m not sure if this proposal can pass the GOP-led House, or even the Senate given how conservative some Democrats are quite frankly (and, of course, the fact that it’s an election year for some), but this is still the honorable thing to do.

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    1. magiclovemuffin

      Now the more cynical part of me thinks Feinstein, Gillibrand and Whitehouse are doing this BECAUSE they are up in 2012, not despite it. These three are from liberal states (California, NY and Rhode Island) so it can’t hurt them and will ensure they get outside money from the gay lobby. (Do we have a lobby? If so, do we need a better one?!) The people in the most middleground states that are up for re-election did NOT sponsor this bill. But as for the rest of the people who sponsored it, I think maybe they should thought it was the right thing to do. People like Blumenthal and Coons both just won in 2010 and have another 4 years before they face re-election. (They also come from liberal states Connecticut and Delaware.) Patty Murray is just won in 2010 and is from a state that isn’t too liberal, Washington, but she is heading the DSCC and needs to do some serious fundraising. Then there’s a bunch of other people too. I’ll just give everyone the benefit of the doubt and say they are all awesome.

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      1. Carmen SanDiego

        I agree 100% with the cynical part of you.

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        1. magiclovemuffin

          When it comes down to it, these people are taking a step toward eliminating DOMA. For whatever there reasons, they would still like to see DOMA repealed. I would much rather see someone support repealing DOMA for political reasons, than see someone support keeping DOMA for political reasons. Do I think I’m ever gonna see Democrat Joe Manchin openly support gay rights? No, because he’s from fucking West Virginia and knows it would hurt him. He skipped the vote to repeal Don’t Ask Don’t Tell vote because for his party and (maybe) his beliefs he wanted to end DADT, but politically he couldn’t. I think that’s rather side. Are there are plenty others I think are similar boats. So rather than complain about why Feinstein, Gillibrand and Whitehouse may be doing this, I will just be glad they did. I don’t believe that if we did have the votes to repeal DOMA these people would suddenly not want to sponsor this bill. And I know jobs, economy, blah blah. But DOMA is still part of the conversation and they aren’t forgetting it exists, so that’s positive. We do have some people in our corner.

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          1. Carmen SanDiego

            I agree with everything you said. I also think we really need to make sure gay-friendly congressmen/women and senators are elected to make sure that we have a shot of passing ENDA and repealing DOMA (if the Supreme Court doesn’t get to it first)

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  10. LK

    Please tell me this election the campaign slogan is “President Fucking Obama”

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    1. Randahl

      Can we make buttons? I would wear “PRESIDENT F*CKING OBAMA” every day of 2012 until the election. And probably after, tho it might get me mugged here in FL.

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      1. LK

        Buttons? That’s absurd.

        T-shirts. Cars. Yeah, fucking cars.

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        1. Randahl

          It’s the absurdity that pulls you in. Do not underestimate the power of the button.

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        2. Randahl

          However, if you want to go big, I propose Big Giant Banners that can be hung from buildings in the middle of the night.

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          1. Randahl

            And yes, I do know some liberal ninjas. Things could be arranged.

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            1. LK

              i am a liberal ninja.

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            2. Toby

              A ninja who is liberal in their political views, or a ninja who is liberal in their ninja-ism?

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            3. LK

              @Kat: yes.

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            4. Randahl

              Am I seeing the beginnings of a liberal ninja alliance?

              Watch out, glitter bombers.

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  11. Shannon1981

    This is a happy time! And this is all but coming out in full support of Marriage Equality, which I bet he does after he is re elected. There is still a part of his base that whole heartedly oppose gay rights, and he needs to keep them to ensure the 2012 election is his.

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