Ethical porn can exist, but it needs your help.
“This one’s on a slow simmer. Like I’m not freaking out about this right now, but I have the feeling that in about another week or so I’ll be full-tilt.”
So you’re engaged, but your fiancée won’t let you tell anyone about it yet. What to do?
In which we try to determine whether a questioner’s recent breakup was the right move, or whether they should try to rectify it.
Honestly, while I’m open to diversity in the women that I date, I have found that usually out of 50 quick matches on OKC I might get three black lesbians.
20. WASH YOUR HANDS IF YOU ATE BUFFALO WINGS BEFORE GETTING LAID, OMG.
I’m getting married in 40 days! Here are some unfiltered feelings and things about that, because what else was I supposed to do?
Your girlfriend wants an open relationship and you agreed to it, but now you feel terrible all the time. What to do?
These female celebrity couples have a ten or more year age gap between them and they are happy as clams!
“When my boyfriend came out to me as trans, he was worried what that would mean for me and us. It’s a few months later and I should be really happy for him. And I am! But I’m starting to feel kind of lost and scared and I don’t know if it has to do with the fact, that he is, of course, changing.”
In the latest episode, DeAnne talks to Autostraddle’s NSFW Editor and Springsteenian-in-Residence Carolyn about the worst sex she’s ever had, her zine Lesbian Sexting, and where she goes to consume information on the Internet.
“I want to fulfill her sexually and sensually and I want to help her explore her various interests and fantasies. But I can’t even think about hitting her without conflating it with my own memories of abuse.”
You want to wow your wife on Valentine’s Day with a special date. You’ve got $200. Let’s do this!
Helpfully divided into sections by relationship status, ranging from “wife” to “the girl who isn’t even your girlfriend (… yet!).”
“Did some naked housework today like that episode of Friends when Rachel was trying to get comfortable with her own body. Luckily, unlike Friends, Ross didn’t come over and ruin it.”
The final week! Time to put all the pieces together.
How to pick up chicks, how to escape your terrible date, how to handle rejection, how to effectively fight with your girlfriend — we’ve got so much advice for y’all.
You can do a super hot striptease for your girlfriend even if you are not, in fact, a Pussycat Doll.
What do you do when your girlfriend has a secret bromance with a girl you once wanted to romance?
Getting naked at home alone, taking a field trip, spontaneous sex, doing some research and more.