Using the Bouncer dildo is like fucking with kegel balls you can actually feel.
I have to be willing to reveal the messy, intimate parts of my life to have this authority exchange really work 24/7. Otherwise, it just isn’t sustainable.
Josie Kearns is a 33-year-old queer, polyamorous, white, trans woman living in Chicago. She has been married for 12 years and also has a long-term girlfriend.
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“How could an incapacitated person feel let alone be sexy, I catch myself thinking. Now, when I have those thoughts, I take out my camera.”
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“I want my friends to know who I belong to now,” rife said. “I want everyone to know I am taken.”
“Not leaning into change is a lot like staring at your house while it’s on fire.”
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If they are feeling hurt by people who don’t want to use their pronouns or just by a long day of having to gender in the world, listen to them and ask how you can help ease the stress.
The more I experience subspace, the more I think that mindful living is possible for me.
This is a great time to release those old, dead stories about needing to be perfect to deserve being loved. This is a perfect time to remember that you get to make new choices about the present moment, free of attachment to the past or fear of the future.
It’s almost impossible to master while grieving. When that grief turns into a depression, is it even M/s anymore?
I’ve worked hard to hold onto my independence, and here I was giving it up — to someone more dominant and more masculine. My feminist ancestors didn’t burn their bras for this. Except what if they did?
“First comes Twitter, then comes Snapchat, then comes texting nudes to a complete and total stranger.” Patty-cake to that one, kiddos.
Giving orders is more than the words coming out of my mouth. It’s the tone of voice I use, the eye contact, the confidence, the ease with which I speak.
“…there’s a value in extending the period of time in which the way you build a life together is directed only by what’s in your heart and guts and brain, not by leases and legal documents and bill payments and shared sofas.”
Being in little space doesn’t feel like being a child again. It feels more freeing than my childhood ever was, and like something completely different.
Sometimes you need to get outside and remember who you are and who you want to be. These are the sex toys to bring with you.
The possibility of finding our kink community gave me the courage to take another deep breath and open the door.